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How to teach a man to be generous? How to make him happy to spend on you?

I started asking these questions at the age of sixteen. And certainly not in order to corny "profit" at someone else's expense. But then, to evoke even stronger and more obvious feelings in my man.

I never liked bouquets of cut flowers, but passing by a flower shop, I shamelessly demanded that my future husband buy me another broom of roses. I understood that he had a modest salary and no extra money, but I also understood that they should always be on me. Let him spend on me, let him make it a habit to please me! There would be a desire - the funds will arrive in time.

Learn to ask the right way

If you want to teach a man to be generous, the first thing you need to know is how to ask correctly. Not everyone is able to ask shamelessly and at the same time delicately. This is best done by a spoiled child. When “their spontaneity” pronounces the unfailing: “Daddy, buy it!”, it is never taken vulgarly. The success of such a request lies in the fact that the child does not doubt the love of his parent, and is also sure that he really needs the required thing, that he deserves it. Therefore, when the “beloved child” asks, it does not feel fear that they will “send” it.

In the process of such a relationship with daddy, a pleasant reflex is fixed - "asked - received." Thus, a fearless character is developed in the child, which is why they say: “Children must be pampered, then real robbers will grow out of them.”

In contrast to this example, most women either do not know how to ask at all, or do it, damaging their self-esteem, which fundamentally contradicts our postulate that men should be dealt with easily and without tension.

So why have so many of you, so beautiful and smart, still not taught your men to be generous? The most popular answer: "To ask - pride does not allow - we want to be independent of men." But this is self-deception! In fact, when you created a couple, you already became dependent on each other. And the point here is something else - that you consider yourself unworthy of "taking".

Where did you get this disease? Yes, everything is from there! From an unforgettable family charter. Most likely, your favorite daddies were big mean people, and you learned from childhood: ask or ask - you still won’t get anything. And if he does, then only with the obligatory condition - to work out! And now this “condition” is becoming to you like a bone across your throat, preventing you from establishing a normal dialogue with your loved one, spreading all his material values ​​​​in front of you with a slight movement of your hand.

Then you were certainly reminded, they say, I gave you "this", and you, so ungrateful, did not justify my hopes, that is, "did not work out." You do not believe in unconditional love for you from a man to this day, so you are forced to curry favor. And even now, when you have become an adult, at the mere thought of asking a man for something, you begin to feel slightly nauseous.

His fifteen-year-old daughter was addicted to dropping in with a friend in a cafe. Father did not like this and one day, by chance, he casually dropped the phrase in front of her: “It's funny to look at these decorated beggars in the Vesna cafe. They sit all evening with some kind of juice and pull-pull-pull it for three hours, until, out of pity, some sucker treats them to something more substantial. The daughter was smart. She became an adult - she treats men herself.

One day, Larisa's boyfriend told her a heartbreaking story about his ex-girlfriend, whom he "loved very much," while she was "so shameless, all she did was to constantly turn him on money." We must give him his due - he never stingy with his ex. Rings, bracelets - gold, diamonds. One story of their breakup is worth something: he just didn’t have enough for a diamond necklace, which the “mercantile creature” ordered for his anniversary.

Impressed by his story, Larisa decided: I will definitely prove to him that "I'm not like that." She kept her promise to herself - her beloved, apparently feeling her monastic indifference to the material side of the relationship, gave her more than modest gifts. So she reveled in the feeling of her high morals, until she was sent home in a taxi, which they did not even bother to pay.

After such "adventures" you join the ranks of women who have been emancipated beyond the norm, and it is easier for them to take a man for maintenance, "lowering" him to the level of a gigolo, than to interact with a normal man. Strong women, deprived of the opportunity to “take it easy” from childhood, automatically reject potential patrons throughout their lives.

However, sometimes it happens even worse - chronic losers and victims of despots grow out of unloved daughters, who also reject all potentially "giver". Outwardly, this can manifest itself as follows: as soon as a man promises such a lady something “good”, she, instead of smiling approvingly at him and “thanking him in advance”, frowns and begins to play independence and incorruptibility.

A kind of bucking horse, which, due to its own “kicking out”, does not allow itself to be properly fed. Well, if she is too zealous, sooner or later she will attract those who will cynically turn her into a draft horse. Independence is always good, but flaunting it is sometimes just stupid.

I think it would be better to do this: for all the good that the man promised to do to you, you need to look at him affectionately and thank him in advance. For a woman, this is a non-committal flirting, and for a man, such behavior is an excellent incentive to continue to communicate with her further, and even “appease” her with something more tangible than “just words.”

You don’t have to be indifferent to the material side of life - you need to purposefully teach your man to be “giftable”, in the name of strengthening his own feelings.

In fact, a “giving” man appreciates a woman who “takes with pleasure” more than one who loves him “for nothing”. The more time, money and effort is spent on a person, the further the giving side tends to go in their feelings. It's like building a house. He says: “I put my soul into it, how can I sell it!” The receiving party usually takes a more "cool" position.

Nietzsche said it well: “Really just people are not gifted. They return everything back. That is why they cause disgust in those who love.

Demanding as a lifestyle

So, be generous. Teach your man to be generous and give you gifts. And if he tells you: “Ask for whatever you want”, “wish” the most precious thing. Within reason, of course. If you are used to cheap cosmetics and clothes, to the cheapest dishes from the menu of cheap cafes, this is also an indicator for a man.

You will say, how is it, we are not prostitutes to take payment from men for our society! We are decent women. By the way, regarding venality, one way or another, we all put ourselves up for auction. Whether we get a job, whether we are looking for a life partner, we always dream of being appreciated. And this is good, it means that we have a healthy ambition.

In order to declare yourself as a luxury woman, it is not necessary to be beautiful, it is more important to be well-groomed. But true grooming is not one-time visits to a beautician, but daily self-control, which comes from exactingness towards oneself. Figuratively speaking, you can indifferently build up fat and ignore wrinkles, or you can solve these problems.

Demandingness, as a lifestyle, is useful to develop not only in relation to yourself, but also in relation to your man. And it is not necessary to spend a lot on creating an “expensive image”. Why hang around with numerous shiny trinkets? Rather than creating a “cheap” image for yourself, it’s better to do without any decorations at all. You know, as noble ladies used to say at court: “You have to come for alms in your own carriage.”

Your "carriage" is not only your "psychological mood", it is also, to some extent, your appearance. And your appearance is an indicator of what is the norm for you, and most importantly, what you are ready to accept from your man with a dear soul. If today you agree to wear cheap jewelry, diamonds will most likely not be presented to you.

By and large, it all depends on the addressee, and not on the donor. Life shows that the same men treat different women in completely different ways: when buying a diamond necklace for one - a parallel mistress, with a clear conscience they present a discounted stainless steel ring. Take it as a fact, your beloved men are the same people as everyone else - they perfectly see where and with whom you can save a lot. But what about justice? you exclaim indignantly. And I will answer you that in fact, this is true ... because like always attracts like: Diamonds are suitable only for gold, but not for stainless steel!

The lover of twenty-year-old Masha was her sixty-year-old chef, director of the restaurant where she worked. She needed material support - he needed a vivid demonstration of his not passing masculine strength. At first, he regularly gave her gifts, and threw up significant amounts for her, but one day everything changed.
That day they went to the sauna, and on the way, in order to save money, she asked him to buy her shampoo and shower gel. In order not to spend it out of her pocket once again, after the “entertainment”, the practical girl put the wet bottles in a bag and took them home.
It would seem that it’s time to take pity on Masha and start throwing more on her needles and pins. An, no! From that day on, “investments” in a young mistress began to come only with food and household chemicals. And at the minimum. And when the girl expressed indignation, her lover “changed his mind” and began to pay for each intimacy at the price of ... a modest grocery set.
Simply, he decided that someone like Masha would be enough. Why pay more than the stated price?

It is important to understand that the sop you accept from him brings you down to a level from which it is already very difficult to scrape off your self-esteem. Picking up "master's trifles" is the same as eating up in a cafe from his dish - all these are the habits of the poor and fools. You only need to take it big, or even sleep with him without money and without gifts and don’t give him anything yourself!

Of course, everyone has their own price point. To whom more is given, more is due. It doesn't befit an oil tycoon to give the woman he loves a lone coffee cup on Valentine's Day, unless it's made of pure gold encrusted with precious stones.

Since ancient times, a man has made offerings to a woman as a token of his adoration. Centuries have passed and ... nothing has changed! Do not deprive him of the pleasure of being a generous "giver"! Awaken in the natural money-grubber the desire to feel like a patron or just "daddy". Love for a woman, which results in big expenses for a man, only benefits him, because she makes him be active: earn money, make a career, overcome difficulties. And if you directly tell him: “You know, I don’t need anything from you, I love you anyway and any hut of your choice will arrange me” - then he remains passive and he becomes bored. You don't charge him, he doesn't get his adrenaline.

When you enter into the position of a loser, you only make it worse for him! He will not seek to shower you with gold and diamonds and change something in his life for this - you do not give him motivation for this. Amuse yourself with the fact that you are so selfless, soft and fluffy? In vain.
On this subject, I will tell you one true story, more like a joke.

A couple in love passes by the stadium.
- Beloved, in the name of our love, I will win the Golden Cup!
_ Whether you win it or not is not so important to me. I'm ready to love you without any cups!
He did not get the golden cup ...
The couple in love again passes by the stadium.
- Beloved, I seem to be losing my shape; Time to start training again...
- Don't worry, I will love you even if your tummy grows.
Time passes. The guy leaves the sport, quits training and begins to rapidly grow fat ... Again they are waddling past the stadium. He buys a bottle of beer and drinks it on the go.
- How much can you drink! If you love me, you must quit! she protests, taking the bottle from him.
- Truth? Do you remember when I was a promising athlete, you said that you would love me, no matter who I was and no matter what I did? For the sake of our love, love me just the way I am. And… uh, give me back my beer!

How to teach a man to give gifts (very concisely)

The issue of “spending on you” is just a matter of prioritization. Quite a few things can be much more “important” to him than you: alcohol, friends, entertainment, or even “girlfriends”. When it comes to your mind to enter into his “adversity”, think about it.

1. Test the soil: borrow some significant amount of money from him and pull with a return. If you remember, draw your own conclusions.

2. In the vocabulary of some "especially gifted" ladies, the word "buy" does not exist at all - it is replaced by a tactful word: "necessary." Men listen to the words “I want” and “I need” much more, they do not irritate them as much as “buy”.
The work with the word goes according to the following scheme. From time to time, in conjunction with this "magic" word, you mention the desired thing, as if by chance remembering it. Remind about it often, but briefly. In no case do not allow any whining! Moreover, he should not have the impression that these words are addressed directly to him. Remember: you just voice your desires out loud, without asking for anything from him and without embarrassment.

If he is not a pathological miser and has feelings for you, he will do what you need. And if he doesn’t have such an opportunity now, he will think about how to find it. Thus, you will kill two birds with one stone: give a person an impetus to development and get the desired thing from him.

There is one important nuance in this method - men catch the word “need” mainly from women, relations with whom are already “boiling” with might and main, but not yet completely “ready”. That is, if you only do what you look into his mouth and try to keep pace with him, if you have pleased him in all the ways you already know - rest, he will not spend too much on you. Because you are already a conquered object for him. In that case, leaf through my book and revise your belief system.

3. Give gifts to men first, and they will definitely give back. And if not, then these are not your men.
The greatest effect on a person is produced by gifts not “on occasion”, but at the “dictation of the soul”. If you do not know when to present such a gift, scroll through the calendar - there is a holiday indicated for each day. After all, there are days of trade workers, doctors and even astronauts! In addition, there are also name days - days when Georgiev, Andreev, Alexandrov and others congratulate everyone. He will appreciate your attention and sense of humor. In any case, in the eyes of your man, this will add points to you. After all, you see, not everyone would have thought of this. This is exactly the case when you can make the smallest monetary contribution, and make the maximum impression with your gift. .

4. Let the man understand that you need money not to satisfy your primary needs, but to receive various pleasures. Even if it really isn't. No need for these nauseating phrases: “Put it on my phone, otherwise I ran out of money” or “Buy me a bottle of mineral water, otherwise I forgot my wallet.” The rich man does not like to give alms, he likes to spend money tastefully. Show that you have this very taste, and he will gladly turn out his pockets and “shush” with you.

5. Don't feel the false guilt of "mean father's daughter." Remember, spending your man's money with and without him is an honor for any woman. You are entitled to it. Because according to the law of attraction of two hearts, you are he. By doing this, you will only become closer to each other.

6. Show the man that spending large sums on you is okay. How to show? Make it normal inside of you. If you “understand everything, but you can’t help yourself” - break the “Cinderella” stereotype: having discarded the embarrassment, go to your own daddy and treacherously turn out HIS pockets. If it works out with the father, it will be much easier with other men. Thus, you will honorably return all your father's "debts".

7. From time to time remind yourself of an important thing: I am a gift in itself, I deserve not to be curry favors!

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Elena/ 2.09.2018 Unfortunately, the book is for weak-willed and eternally offended ladies who cannot cope with their selfishness, infantilism and hysterical emotions. In general, for the weak, humiliated and offended ... Tamara, if you were a strong person, and not a whiner, then you would learn to build your life on a positive, wise and philanthropic basis, but perhaps at the moment you are not capable, because you are overwhelmed with grievances and complaints - more than love for a person, you promote a woman to love only herself, and this is a real failure and inability to further development, since an unbalanced and hysterical love for oneself is a sign of childish egoism and immaturity. You just have not yet grown from a child into a mature woman, now you are on the verge of a deep degree of depression and mental disorder, the outcome of which you yourself know, if, of course, you are a real, and not an imaginary psychologist. Depression can only be cured by loving others, not yourself. So before it's too late, learn to love others...

Ekaterina/ 04/10/2016 Read books written by men... who else but they will write about themselves. A woman will never write anything useful and worthy on this subject. Because women have no logic.

Mariana/ 08/16/2015 The book is easy to read, useful for women of all ages.
Development is better...

Evgeniy/ 06/27/2015 By the nature of my work, I have learned to treat with understanding the fact that the most problematic patients need personal consultations because only by reading books they cannot understand what they can understand only after six months of therapy under the supervision of a specialist. My colleague told me about books matriarchy light. She takes a lot from these books, advising women with a difficult fate. But again, we must not forget that any books work best in conjunction with the advice of an experienced psychologist. So don't despair if it seems to you that nothing will ever help you.

Oksana/ 06/14/2015 Well, I don’t know ... I liked it, it was very funny and somewhere I even thought about it. There are many articles on the site. Well, I agree with something, with something I don’t, something fits, something doesn’t, that’s what the head is given for. For me, the main thing in literature is to make you think, and not to give answers to all questions. And paid books - in my opinion it is logical: if you want to buy more, if you don’t want, no one forces you.

a guest/ 06/04/2015 If everything was successful with you, then instead of pseudo smart comments (and you are convinced that you are smart, aren't you?), you would now fuck and take care of your personal life. And if everything is not so successful for you, then you can leave a mark by throwing filth at the one who is doing something.

a guest/ 13.03.2014 Tatyana. You answered your own question in your first comment. A normal person, in this case a woman, understands that Poliy's books (or whatever it is?) are written purely for making money. And that she does not understand male psychology at all. And only a complete fool and flawed person will praise her heresy. Polyus from the same series as Schlachter and company. Therefore, it is not difficult to guess who makes up the main backbone of readers and readers of such authors. Sofia looks like a bot.

Tatyana/ 03/12/2014 And I want to add to the address of the previous commentators. "Sofia" - this kind of books really charge with positive, but very soon this euphoria passes ... But nothing changes in life. And "guest". What makes you think that Sophia is a "gray mouse"? To be honest, I'm already so tired of this primitive typology of female characters. Or maybe the problem lies in those who look at a woman and see in her only a "gray mouse"? Maybe such lookers simply have a miserable view of the world, including women?

Tatyana/ 03/12/2014 Out of female curiosity, I decided to look at this creation, because it became interesting what else could be written fundamentally new on this threadbare topic. Nothing new, of course, found. Everything is the same as that of all the other ladies who consider themselves to be the "guru" of male psychology. This is what amazes me .. Well, you got married, well, these individuals of the opposite sex paid attention to you. But what for books something to scribble??? Does the mere fact of your marriage give you the right to classify yourself as an experienced amourologist. Without it, we directly do not know how to attract men. Admit it, dear Tamara, that you write books in order to earn money ... The topic is already very fertile. And, in general, it seems that the Author, first of all, is trying to convince himself of something and inspire himself. Everything would be fine with her in this field, figs she would scribble this banality! After all, writing a book is a kind of psychotherapy. Who are you trying to deceive, Tamarochka?

a guest/ 10.03.2014 Sophia and similar gray mice. Before reading and trying to put the methods of Paly into practice, go to the mirror and look at yourself, and then at the photo of the author of these books. What is allowed to Jupiter is not allowed to the bull! Wrap it around your mouth.

Sofia/ 03/09/2014 a cool book .. like the matriarchy site, it’s a pity that the rest of the author’s books are very expensive and do not come in paper form ((

"I was lucky. Life confronted me with men who not only loved me, but also taught me a lot"

and then, in the next chapter:

"Relationships ... are beneficial to consider as gambling tug of war. In this case, the chances of a woman not to flop when he lets go are greatly increased"

Those. did her men teach her to be ready to "flop" when they get tired of the game of love? And she sincerely perceives this as their love?

What kind of loving person wants to be loved or beloved - "flopped"??? A rhetorical question of course.

After that, in general, the book could be closed and not read further, because everything that the men “loving” her “taught” her has absolutely nothing to do with love, as can be seen from the phrase about “tug of war”.

The desire for the other to "flop" or experience pain and other discomfort is passed off as love - this is the looking glass, where everything is turned upside down. Tamara even immediately warns you that "it will hurt", because she wants to "scrape off old complexes" for you, but in fact she wants to distort the normal mental processes in the human soul and the normal ways of relationships, calling white - black, and black - white . It's not even through the looking glass, it's some kind of anti-world. A person who does not care that if he lets go of the rope, then you will "flop" - this is not only a person who does not love and is close to you, this is an enemy and ill-wisher under the flattering mask of a friend who does not care if it hurts you or not, and maybe not even anyway, maybe even it brings him pleasure - to see your pain and suffering.

But Tamara also invites you to suffer in order to "stop being a sheep" - from the very first pages of the book she calls the readers sheep! In fact, she offends them from the very first pages.

Why do readers easily "swallow" it?

They probably do not yet take seriously what a journalist from Sochi writes in her free book. Or, perhaps, they agree with this wording, because in their personal lives it’s not very good yet, but here they promise that if you “bleat in a new way”, even a couple of “chips”, as she calls her secrets of seduction, you can stop being a sheep and even become an irresistible fatal beauty and completely change your life: go to a ball, marry a prince, get half a kingdom in addition.

And now the readers, who agree that "it will hurt a little", agree to this crooked world, an anti-world, where good is called evil and vice versa. The author wasted no time immediately stressing the need to manipulate relationships. She talks about the power of the absence of illusions, while she hangs these very illusions on the ears of her readers by the ton, without respecting them at all, of course. This is evident when she easily offends her readers, and women in general, from the very first pages of the book:

it's easier to be a sheep than to work on yourself

"... you don't have to be just another crush in love"

I wonder what Majnun would answer her?

"...that funny fool with lips.."

There is also something useful in the book, for example, remarks that you need to develop your own character in yourself, and that you should not waste your time and warmth on men who are indifferent to us, these are common truths that have been tested for centuries and generations, but HOW it is to do - advice will be given by Tamara exactly the opposite!

And Tamara writes that "beautiful, smart and kind women are often left without good men." Beautiful and smart - remain, but kind, truly kind, will not remain! Such as a magnet for men.

And the thing is that men are actually very shy and distrustful beings, no matter how they present themselves as brutal machos when it comes to women and close relationships, it’s even strange that in her book this “expert in male psychology” does not reveal such simple and obvious fact. This is due to the physiological reasons for the work of the male brain, when rational and emotional thinking cannot work in them at the same time, unlike women.

In this regard, it is as if there are 2 different men inside one man: one of them is guided only by reason and logic, and the other - only by feelings. And this "second man" is very vulnerable, unlike a woman, when feelings own him, and not he them. He tries to use more rational intelligence than emotional, suppresses emotions and feelings in order to ensure his safety, and this leads to his psychopathic and even more disidentification from his feelings. And that's why, at the deepest instinctive level, men are looking for a partner with a good heart, because with such they will feel safe, and will finally be able to relax, open up and release all the accumulated steam of unrealized feelings and emotions.

All this is similar to the author of ML - completely unknown. Her advice is built around the manipulation of self-esteem (self-esteem) and instincts ("men are attracted to sexual intelligence"). When genuine and successful relationships between people are based primarily on an understanding of everything that concerns, first of all, human security (she mentions this only in passing, but again appealing to pride), and only then its benefits (in the form of pleasures and resources). This is the first and most basic need of man and all living things. If a man does not feel safe next to a woman, he does not care about sex, beauty, intelligence, or pleasure. He will pull the rope and savor the moment when she "flops".

In principle, you can manipulate and play with self-esteem and self-esteem as a revenge, when your interests are hurt or your trust is usurped, as a result of which you are painfully "flopped", but this does not apply to healthy relationships, but only to those that happen to people lazy, infantile and accustomed to "drive into paradise on someone else's hump" In this regard, the book can be of help: how to punish the offender. Speech templates are not bad there. But there are much simpler and less energy-intensive ways, provided that your self-esteem does not jump from the opinions of other people, since its techniques are designed to maintain a shaky self-esteem, coupled with the "tug of war" and are intended.

And therefore, I see no point in further detailed analysis of the book, since almost everything described by the author has nothing to do with reality, and insults to readers from the pages of the book continue to come, in general, the book left some kind of even squeamish feeling. It is felt that the author is not a kind person, and dishonest, with jumping self-esteem, dependent on someone else's opinion:

"When I walk and ... they look at me, I feel a surge of strength ... under these views my inner strength grows"

contradicts her immediately added

"and you don't care how they appreciate it"

If it were to spit, then there would be no surge of strength, adrenaline would not be injected into the blood with an indifferent attitude to "views".

In general, I got the strong impression that she, like her "loving men", is just waiting for her readers to "slap". Because then she can joyfully exclaim, "And you yourself are to blame!" and fuel your self-esteem even more, which is what she succeeds in - but you don’t. On this occasion, she even recently wrote an article "What heals and cripples", than in general, she signed with both hands and confirmed that her chips do not work, and if they do, then the harm from them can be much more than good! Well, that is, about how to treat a runny nose and get lung cancer as a side effect.