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Introduction
The four states of a woman

Have you noticed that every season you feel in a different way?

In winter, you feel how the cold forces you to be rational and prudent. Indeed, in bad weather, you don’t want to leave the house once again, and you think through every step you take. The view of the snowy plain awakens thoughts of freedom. The icy wind makes you shackle yourself in the armor of coldness.

And yet, at home, in a friendly circle, you melt from the warmth and sensitively capture the moods of those around you. Feelings awaken in you.

They will flood like a river when March comes. Your mood will quickly change, it will be impossible to keep up with it. All the plans built in the winter will collapse - in the spring their logic is no longer in demand. Sometimes you start behaving like in childhood - you are capricious, picky, you are hard to please. Yes, you yourself do not know what you want in the spring. Or do you know? For someone to take your whims seriously, to take care of that little girl who woke up in you with the March sun?

The summer sun will awaken strong passions in you. They are difficult to control, impossible to manage. It is worth the fire to flare up, and its flame already lives its own life - obeys its own laws. You become bold and even daring and dive headlong into the pool of passion. And if in the summer you completely surrender to your inner fire, then by the fall you emerge from this pool as a luxurious beauty.

Your September state is like the rich colors of an autumn landscape. There are many shades of complex feelings in your soul that you catch in yourself and those around you. And people are drawn to you to hear a kind word or wise advice. You radiate the fullness of life, calmness and self-confidence.

Each season is associated with one of the four major women's fortunes. In winter, this is the state of the Queen - self-sufficient, independent, rational. In spring - the state of the Girl, trusting, loving, open. In summer - the state of the Mistress, passionate, bright and exciting the male imagination. And in autumn - the state of the Mistress, confident, calm and wise.

Each of these states is not just a set of qualities, but a manifestation of four forms of female energy.

Maybe you haven't heard about it. But this does not mean that these states are unfamiliar to you. The one born of a woman is already born with intuitive knowledge of all four states. Just the degree of manifestation of these conditions for different women is different. In someone, the Lover is more manifested, in someone the Queen is more, in someone the Mistress is more, and in someone - the Girl.

The states of female energy are associated with the natural elements - Earth, Air, Water and Fire.

Each element gives you a certain energy at the time of your birth. The element of Earth, strong and essential, endows a woman with calmness, practicality, solidity and reliability (the state of the Mistress), the element of Fire, hot and pulsating, makes a woman sensual and impulsive, passionate and sexual (the state of the Mistress). The element of Water gives us emotionality and spontaneity, playfulness and softness (the condition of a Girl). Air helps us to become self-reliant and purposeful, independent and logical (the state of the Queen).

All these states are depicted in the legends and tales of different peoples. Of course, you learned about the Queen's condition in childhood from the fairy tale "The Snow Queen" by Hans Christian Andersen. Not surprisingly, the Danish writer turned to this topic. After all, Denmark is a country with ancient royal traditions. So this is where the story could happen. snow queen, dazzling, domineering and so attractive that she even managed to win Kai's kind children's heart, enchanting him with her splendor. Andersen guessed and embodied in this image those qualities of the Queen that still excite the imagination of many men. The white snowy kingdom, the vast expanse - all these are the possessions of the Queen, a proud and shining woman, the conqueror of men's hearts.

In Russian fairy tales, we can also meet the image of the queen - this is the Swan Princess, sung by Pushkin, Vrubel and other geniuses. The swan was once the king of all birds. Since then, legends about swan maidens have appeared in the mythology of the northern peoples as a symbol of royal power, unfading beauty and communion with sacred knowledge.

In Scandinavian mythology, swan maidens turned into Valkyries, warrior maidens on winged horses. But, like swan maidens, they fly to a river or lake and, throwing off their clothes, turn into fabulous beauties. It is believed that only the one who hides their clothes can gain power over them.

The Queen symbolizes the element of Air. And most of the practices associated with the element of Air originated from the northern tradition, from the Arctic ancestral home of our civilization - Hyperborea, the disappeared mainland in the Far North. The Hellenes came up with this word, calling the country behind the north wind Boreas, stretching for many hundreds of kilometers. As legends tell, the climate there was mild and warm, and this region prospered, striking with its wealth. It was there that the main pyramid of the Earth towered - Mount Meru, the ancient mythical sacred center of the world. But the fall of the asteroid changed the axis of rotation of the Earth, and the ancient northern continent went under water. Only a part of the great continent remained, Greenland, bound by ice, which keeps its secrets.

You may have read the book or watched the movie Smilla's Snow Feeling. About a girl who had an amazing intuitive understanding of snow, about a girl who loved endless expanses and mathematics, the abstract science of numbers and formulas. This is the story of a stubborn and courageous heroine who firmly decided to unravel the mystery of the death of her little friend, a native of Greenland.

Smilla is another northern heroine-Queen, embodying all the qualities of this state - independence, logic, authority and independence. Such a woman is brave and cold-blooded, confident and free. She sees everything, understands everything and controls everything. She guides and inspires a man, always remaining herself.

A girl is a different state of a woman. Gentle and kind, loving and meek. A girl is like water, washing away all sorrows, taking away sorrows and giving boundless love, peace and tranquility. In Greek art, this state was embodied in the goddess Aphrodite, who married the Olympian gods and ordinary people.

Afros is Greek for sea foam. Aphrodite was born from the blood of Uranus castrated by Cronus, which fell into the sea and formed foam. Once, as the legend says, Aphrodite emerged from the foam on the coast of the Greek island of Cyprus.

Until now, in Cyprus, this place is popular with tourists who specially come here to plunge into the waters that washed the body of the beautiful goddess, and transform externally and internally. Because of the stones, as if specially scattered near the shore, the sea is always restless here - the waves merrily run on the warm sand, swirl in whirlpools, rage and seem to compose a song in honor of the revered Aphrodite.

This place is also known by the initiates - people who have knowledge and perform energy practices. The place got its name - Petratu Romiou - not by chance. It is associated with one of the exploits of the Byzantine hero Digenis Akritas. It is thanks to him that this little bay is so restless. After all, it was Digenis, according to legend, who threw giant blocks into the water, because of which the water is now foaming near the shore. The hero defended the country from the Saracen invaders who tried to take over the city. One of these boulders was named Petratu Romiou, which translates as "Greek's Stone".

Lovers come here especially. It is believed that bathing in these waters guarantees them a long life together. And if at midnight you muster up the courage and swim past the biggest stone, then you will always be young and beautiful, like a Greek goddess.

Aphrodite had the power of powerful love penetrating the whole world. She is the goddess of eternal spring and life. She is also associated with fertility, so she was always depicted surrounded by flowers - roses, anemones, daffodils, lilies, violets.

This goddess was worshiped in antiquity and is still worshiped. Lovers believe in her power and patronage. And they bring gifts to Aphrodite - chic works of art and cute trinkets, dedicate dances and poems.

For example, these:

I invoke Urania, the Virgin with an immortal smile.
O Aphrodite, sung in hymns, Bringing good!
Sea-born Mother Goddess, Mistress of the Night,
You cover passionate lovers with a misty veil.
You skillfully weave the secret threads of deceit
Into the golden net, O Mother of Ananki, pleasing to the eye.
For You are the source of everything that the bottomless Cosmos reveals to us.
The Trinity Moir obeyed You, O Lady of the world,
The heights of the mountains, the hills and valleys of the fertile land,
The deep seas and the creatures of the sea that dwell in it.

Apec, the god of war and battle, was the husband of Aphrodite. Love keeps the warrior in battle, and the stronger the woman's love, the more protected the man. Therefore, warriors also honor the goddess of love and ask her for protection.

The element of Fire, which controls the state of the Mistress, also has its own goddess - the Indian one. Her name is Shakti, which translates as "strength". It is the creative energy of the universe, embodying the feminine energy.

According to Indian mythology, Shakti was the wife of Shiva, who embodies the divine aspect of every man. She is a fire that burns inside every woman, illuminating everything around and giving creative energy.

In different incarnations, Shakti had many names - for example, Sati. Sati symbolizes marital fidelity, sexual and fruitful passion. This force can be both creative and destructive. Therefore, some men are afraid of such feminine qualities.

A beautiful legend tells about the love of Sati and Shiva. Sati's father, Daksha, decided to marry her off and arranged a kind of bride-to-be. However, he decided not to call Shiva, because he did not recognize him as a god and believed that he would find a better match for his daughter. However, Sati dreamed only of Shiva. And when she threw into the air the garland intended for the groom, she, according to her desire, fell on the neck of Shiva who suddenly appeared.

However, the father of the bride was not at all happy about this. He set out to confront the lovers. So, he even removed Shiva from the sacrifice, which was attended by the rest of the gods.

Sati was offended by this position of her father. She called on Shiva to destroy the sacrifice, and herself, unable to bear the humiliation, threw herself into the sacred fire and burned. (By the way, the term "sati" is still used in India in relation to widows who burn themselves on the funeral pyre of their husband.)

The unfortunate Shiva with the charred body of Sati wandered around the world for a long time, trying to find a way to revive his beloved to life. Finally, the god Vishnu took pity on him. He cut Sati's body into many pieces and scattered the remains, making the places where they fell into centers of pilgrimage. And Sati after some time was reborn as Parvati, the new wife of Shiva.

And although this is just a legend, there are still places in India where people who want to join the ancient cults, find themselves, undergo special practices. One of these places is Khajuraho.

Legends say that the creators of Khajuraho descended from the moon. Hemavati, the beautiful daughter of a Brahmin, was seduced by the moon god while bathing in a river at night. From this union of a mortal and a god, a son, Chandravarman, was born. In those days, an unmarried woman with a child was persecuted and condemned, so Hemavati went to the forests of Central India. There she raised and raised her son, who became the founder of the great Chandela dynasty. When he was recognized as the ruler, he saw in a dream his mother, who begged him to build a temple that sang of human passions. Now, people from different parts of the world come to this temple to feel the great power of passion, the power of fire. After all, this is creative energy, with the help of which a person is capable of creation.

The fourth element, the element of the Earth, gives the woman the state of the Mistress. She communicates solidity, poise, faith in one's own strength, communicates order to everything. Catherine the Great, the Russian Empress, is that woman-Mistress who left a mark on history, which is admired to this day.

Another Indian heroine, Princess Mandarava, embodies the qualities of this state of a woman.

According to legend, Mandarava was the wife of the great guru Padmasambhava, who was called to Tibet to restore order and help Buddhism replace the Bon religion. No matter how many Buddhists built temples, they immediately collapsed - either an earthquake occurred, or a fire, or a strong hurricane swooped in. The priests of the Bon religion did not want to give up their power just like that. Moreover, they ruled the state.

But back to Mandarava.

Long ago, at the end of the 8th century, in one of the regions of India, the beautiful princess Mandarava was born. Since childhood, she has been passionate about the search for sacred knowledge. Mandarava's father invited Guru Padmasambhava to be his daughter's teacher. But one day he caught them doing not sciences, but love. Enraged, he threw his daughter into a pit of thorns and ordered Padmasambhava to be burned. But Padmasambhava turned the fire into a lake of sesame oil. In the middle of the lake, surrounded by flames, a beautiful lotus grew, on which Padmasambhava sat in the body of an eight-year-old child. The amazed king fell on his face and recognized the divinity of Padmasabhava. He offered him his kingdom and his daughter in marriage. So Mandarava became the beloved wife of Guru Padmasambhava, and together they went to the sacred place of power - the cave of Maratika, where they spent three hundred years.

And it was there, in the darkness of the cave, symbolizing wisdom and mastery, that they found the sacred bliss of merging.

Maybe you remembered other stories about the four female states? There are a great many of them. They capture the ancient experience, which was originally preserved in the oral tradition - through fairy tales, legends, myths. By reading them, you, feeling the vibrations and imagining the image, can tune in to a certain state. The heroines changed, but the essence remained the same - every woman has four states of energy that she can and must reveal in herself.

However, is it necessary to look for all these states in oneself? Maybe it's enough to find one thing - something that is closest to you?

No, being in one state is not enough. For example, if the state of the Girl dominates, then everyone around is surprised why such a sweet, kind and obedient girl is still alone, forgetting that it is not the Girl that attracts men, but the passionate Lover. Or, on the contrary, someone likes to be independent and free, to make decisions herself, that is, to be the Queen. This is a wonderful state to deprive a man of his mind, but having achieved his goal, the man expects the tigress to turn into an affectionate kitten, and if this does not happen, then the man, unable to withstand the stress, disappears.

A woman is a unique creature, she can strengthen those energies that are weakly manifested in her. Through the connection with the elements, a woman acquires a new state, integrity and power.

Having experienced all four states, finding yourself in each, you will be able to feel the fullness of life. Perhaps then the person you have always dreamed of will come into your life. However, finding your half is a whole science.

Find out the secret about yourself

I suggest that you “show the cards”, that is, find out what your nature is most inclined to, what energy prevails in you. This is very important so that you can take the shortest path to your wholeness. I want to invite you to find out some details about yourself. What are you - rational or spontaneous? What state prevails in you? What do you strive for as an ideal? And what do you refuse as unnecessary?

I see you are already interested. Let's try.

For those who like tests, I offer a test.

You have to choose description 1 or 2 and 3 or 4 from the first part of the table. Read, try on the descriptions for yourself, and then after the table, see the conclusions.

1. Queen.

2. Girl.

3. Mistress.

4. Mistress.

As a rule, a person has two leading states. And the test shows those states that are given to us from birth. But to find out which states are most manifested in this moment, you can use the Tarolino deck.

"States" layout

Take the Tarolino deck, select four queens from it: the Queen of Water, the Queen of Fire, the Queen of Earth and the Queen of Air. Now lay out the cards face down and face down in one row.

From left to right, start opening the cards. Only queens will have values. So:

the first queen you discover is who you want to be;

the second queen you discover is who you are;

the third queen you discover is what you develop;

the fourth queen you will open is the one you do not accept.

Now you see how the forces of the four states are distributed in you. Working on the book further, you will be able to balance them in order to create wholeness from harmony and show your feminine strength and essence to the end.

The alignment will help you understand why relationships develop in a certain way and what you need to pay attention to. It is in those states that we do not accept that we experience the greatest difficulties in relationships.

At all times, men sought to find the one in whom all states are manifested. They intuitively felt that only such a woman could be their worthy companion, help them gain strength and integrity. Only when a woman connects with a man on all four levels (physical, sexual, emotional and mental), only then the man is filled with energy and ready to perform feats. Only such a woman helps him conquer the world, which he is ready to throw at her feet. Only such a woman can help a man reach those heights that are destined for him by fate.

If a woman is familiar with these states, then she closes the circle of her feminine power and, as a sign of this, receives an engagement ring as a gift.

In his wife, a man wants to see a passionate Mistress, and an inspiring muse or an impregnable Queen, and an enthusiastic Girl, and a zealous Mistress. A man waits, even sometimes unconsciously, for the satisfaction of all his needs - both mental, and emotional, and physical, and sexual. On a physical level, he expects a woman to take care of him, feed him delicious breakfasts or dinners, keep the house in order, support and calm him in difficult moments. We call this state of a woman the Mistress. And at the same time on emotional level he wants to see in the woman he loves a helpless girl who needs his protection and patronage, a girl who admires him and enthusiastically listens to his every word. A girl who recklessly believes in his ability to change the world and rejoices in his successes, appreciates his efforts and gifts, even the simplest ones. At the mental level, a man expects from a woman intelligence and education, the ability to conduct an intellectual conversation, to be aware of his affairs and problems, to be able to guide and inspire him, to be able to be interesting and independent, creative and unpredictable. He wants to see in her the Queen, or the muse. But everything pales before what a man is waiting for at night. No wonder they say - "the night cuckoo will cuckle the day." Passionate and skillful Mistress, who knows all the secrets of bed art, secret points on the body of a man, who is not afraid of oral sex, gets unlimited power. A man cannot get enough of such a woman, and he is drawn to her again and again, he longs for her and seeks to spend every night only with her.

But first, each of us is waiting for a period of courtship. How to do everything right at this time?

It is during the courtship period that a woman lives through all four states that we talked about - Girls, Mistresses, Queens and Mistresses. A man seems to be checking how familiar these states are to a woman, whether she can satisfy all his needs. Can he find what he's looking for in one woman?

Why can't a woman be in one state? Why might this backfire on her?

Sometimes it happens that you give not only sexual energy, but also feed a man, take care of him, make decisions for him, without demanding anything in return. But such altruism turns against you. Because the only man to whom you can devote yourself and give everything is your son. If you behave the same way with a man, then he will also feel your mother in you, and this is very dangerous for your relationship. He will respect you, but he will stop wanting you, because there is a ban on incest with “mom”, and therefore he will subconsciously avoid sex with you. Maybe you met such women: you bought a house for him, and fed him, and put him to bed with you. And it is not surprising that he will immediately be carried away by the one he can take care of himself. Men love to take care of little girls, buy them gifts, carry them in their arms, pamper and protect them. That is why the condition of the Girl is so important. However, constant infantilism eventually irritates. We must not forget about the state of the Queen when you are independent and free. When a man feels that you are one step away from leaving. We inspire a man, but at the same time we are interesting in ourselves. Men shower the Queen with gifts, flowers, trying to earn her attention.

So, in the state of the Mistress you give energy, in the state of the Girl you receive, in the state of the Mistress you give, in the state of the Queen you receive.

Usually two conditions are manifested in a woman. Let's say Mistress and Girl. Or Mistress and Queen. Depending on this, a woman attracts a man into her life who could complement her, strengthen those states in which she is not manifested. And vice versa, a man is looking for that woman in whom there is something that he himself lacks. For example, a man in whom practicality and logic are shown will look for a woman in whom emotionality and sexuality are bright - Girl and Lover. And a creative man, in whom sexuality and emotionality are strong, on the contrary, will look for a woman who is dominated by practicality - Earth and logic - Air.

Men, too, experience the power of the elements. The dominance and combination of certain elements turns some into generals, others into artists and lyricists, others into scientists poring over scientific works and trying to comprehend the secrets of the universe, and the fourth into merchants and teachers. These are the four main male clans.

And representatives of each clan have their own dominant needs: intellectual, energetic, emotional, sensory. Depending on them, a man needs and looks for a woman, depending on them, a woman chooses a man.

Ruler clan

Air and Earth are men in whom logic and practicality are clearly manifested. These are born leaders, they know how to manage and carry along. They have a strong will, they are purposeful and persistent. They always achieve the goals that they set for themselves, sweeping away all obstacles in the way. In their understanding, the world is ruled by force, and they know how to manifest it. They rarely fail and do not forgive insults and humiliations, waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. From those around them, they demand order and discipline. They are restrained in the manifestation of their emotions, secretive and jealous. They tend to control every step of a woman and are ready to hide her from everyone.

They are cool about their own appearance, paying more attention to the status of those things that belong to them.

merchant clan

Earth and Water - practicality and emotionality prevail in such men. Emotionality is manifested in the fact that they are perfectly able to capture the mood of others and, just playing along, achieve their goals. They know how to bargain perfectly, always defending their interests. At the same time, they are not prone to sentimentality and romanticism. Their main qualities are freedom of action and thinking, the desire to follow their own impulses. They are unpredictable, risk-averse, optimistic, decisive and not disposed to abstract reasoning. They have a desire for power and glory. They are always confident in themselves and their rightness. They always and in everything try to show their superiority to others, but for all that they are sociable and know how to create a holiday for themselves and others. They have excellent taste and know how to enjoy the beauty of the world around them. They are very sensitive to their own appearance, they dress beautifully. They can show either generosity, showering them with gifts, or stinginess, even in small things. They know how to beautifully look after, delivering both sensual and aesthetic pleasure. Great lovers of women.

They love variety in everything and are constantly in search of new sensations.

creator clan

Water and Fire are those men in whom emotionality and sexuality are more pronounced. High sexuality is manifested in high creative potential. These are men with a rich imagination, able to be fascinated by new opportunities and rush after the “blue bird”. They know how to create something new - they are artists, poets, architects, actors, musicians. They know how to express and evoke the emotions they need. They are dreamy, romantic and capable of beautiful gestures. They are absolutely indifferent to everyday trifles, it does not matter to them where to sleep, what to eat, what and how they are dressed. They need someone to take care of. They are generous and mean at the same time. Creative chaos always reigns in their lives, but it is only in the midst of this chaos that beautiful works of art are born. They sing of the woman, but it is difficult for them to provide for her. They are ready to devote their whole lives to her, but they are unlikely to be able to build a house for her. They live in an imaginary world cut off from reality, and this allows them to create new worlds. But for these worlds to turn into reality, they need someone who will open them and be able to make all their fantasies come true. They are very sexy and inventive.

clan of discoverers

Fire and Air - these men show logic and intuition, as well as sexuality. This is a clan of male discoverers, scientists, researchers. They are always ready to plunge into the unknown to discover the laws that govern the world. They know how to create structures. They easily destroy the old to create something new. They care little about the shape of their house, order or disorder there. They do not pay attention to their health, they can, carried away by work, forget about food. They are indifferent to money and are able to earn easily and spend just as easily. They are not well versed in emotions and therefore prefer not to show their feelings and not let anyone particularly close to their inner world. They seem cold and reserved, but by nature they are very passionate men. They are excellent at arguing their point of view and often, in search of truth, they do not notice how the feelings of other people hurt.

Knowing which clan a man belongs to by birthright allows you to better understand him and accept him for who he is, with all the advantages and limitations. And not to demand from the artist golden palaces, and from the ruler - the expression of strong emotions.

Men are more determined in their manifestations and more lazy. More precisely, more rational. They will not waste time developing what they have poorly manifested. Unlike women, who are more plastic and can develop those energies that, due to upbringing or birth, were poorly manifested in them.

Therefore, a woman, when she knows the four basic states - Mistresses, Queens, Girls and Mistresses - can tune in to any man, understanding what manifestations he expects from her.

On the pages of this book, you will learn how to discover and develop all these states in yourself. Simple exercises and meditations will help you feel them well, get used to them. You will fulfill them without difficulty - after all, you were born a woman, which means that all these states are your inner world. This is a very interesting adventure - knowing yourself.

Are you ready to go on a trip?

Larisa Renard

Four facets of perfection. Annual Femininity Return Program

Introduction

The four states of a woman

Have you noticed that every season you feel in a different way?

In winter, you feel how the cold forces you to be rational and prudent. Indeed, in bad weather, you don’t want to leave the house once again, and you think through every step you take. The view of the snowy plain awakens thoughts of freedom. The icy wind makes you shackle yourself in the armor of coldness.

And yet, at home, in a friendly circle, you melt from the warmth and sensitively capture the moods of those around you. Feelings awaken in you.

They will flood like a river when March comes. Your mood will quickly change, it will be impossible to keep up with it. All the plans built in the winter will collapse - in the spring their logic is no longer in demand. Sometimes you start behaving like in childhood - you are capricious, picky, you are hard to please. Yes, you yourself do not know what you want in the spring. Or do you know? For someone to take your whims seriously, to take care of that little girl who woke up in you with the March sun?

The summer sun will awaken strong passions in you. They are difficult to control, impossible to manage. It is worth the fire to flare up, and its flame already lives its own life - obeys its own laws. You become bold and even daring and dive headlong into the pool of passion. And if in the summer you completely surrender to your inner fire, then by the fall you emerge from this pool as a luxurious beauty.

Your September state is like the rich colors of an autumn landscape. There are many shades of complex feelings in your soul that you catch in yourself and those around you. And people are drawn to you to hear a kind word or wise advice. You radiate the fullness of life, calmness and self-confidence.

Each season is associated with one of the four major women's fortunes. In winter, this is the state of the Queen - self-sufficient, independent, rational. In spring - the state of the Girl, trusting, loving, open. In summer - the state of the Mistress, passionate, bright and exciting the male imagination. And in autumn - the state of the Mistress, confident, calm and wise.

Each of these states is not just a set of qualities, but a manifestation of four forms of female energy.

Maybe you haven't heard about it. But this does not mean that these states are unfamiliar to you. The one born of a woman is already born with intuitive knowledge of all four states. Just the degree of manifestation of these conditions for different women is different. In someone, the Lover is more manifested, in someone the Queen is more, in someone the Mistress is more, and in someone - the Girl.

The states of female energy are associated with the natural elements - Earth, Air, Water and Fire.

Each element gives you a certain energy at the time of your birth. The element of Earth, strong and essential, endows a woman with calmness, practicality, solidity and reliability (the state of the Mistress), the element of Fire, hot and pulsating, makes a woman sensual and impulsive, passionate and sexual (the state of the Mistress). The element of Water gives us emotionality and spontaneity, playfulness and softness (the condition of a Girl). Air helps us to become self-reliant and purposeful, independent and logical (the state of the Queen).

All these states are depicted in the legends and tales of different peoples. Of course, you learned about the Queen's condition in childhood from the fairy tale "The Snow Queen" by Hans Christian Andersen. Not surprisingly, the Danish writer turned to this topic. After all, Denmark is a country with ancient royal traditions. Therefore, here the story of the Snow Queen could happen, dazzling, powerful and so attractive that she even managed to win Kai's kind children's heart, enchanting him with her magnificence. Andersen guessed and embodied in this image those qualities of the Queen that still excite the imagination of many men. The white snowy kingdom, the vast expanse - all these are the possessions of the Queen, a proud and shining woman, the conqueror of men's hearts.

In Russian fairy tales, we can also meet the image of the queen - this is the Swan Princess, sung by Pushkin, Vrubel and other geniuses. The swan was once the king of all birds. Since then, legends about swan maidens have appeared in the mythology of the northern peoples as a symbol of royal power, unfading beauty and communion with sacred knowledge.

In Scandinavian mythology, swan maidens turned into Valkyries, warrior maidens on winged horses. But, like swan maidens, they fly to a river or lake and, throwing off their clothes, turn into fabulous beauties. It is believed that only the one who hides their clothes can gain power over them.

The Queen symbolizes the element of Air. And most of the practices associated with the element of Air originated from the northern tradition, from the Arctic ancestral home of our civilization - Hyperborea, the disappeared mainland in the Far North. The Hellenes came up with this word, calling the country behind the north wind Boreas, stretching for many hundreds of kilometers. As legends tell, the climate there was mild and warm, and this region prospered, striking with its wealth. It was there that the main pyramid of the Earth towered - Mount Meru, the ancient mythical sacred center of the world. But the fall of the asteroid changed the axis of rotation of the Earth, and the ancient northern continent went under water. Only a part of the great continent remained, Greenland, bound by ice, which keeps its secrets.

You may have read the book or watched the movie Smilla's Snow Feeling. About a girl who had an amazing intuitive understanding of snow, about a girl who loved endless expanses and mathematics, the abstract science of numbers and formulas. This is the story of a stubborn and courageous heroine who firmly decided to unravel the mystery of the death of her little friend, a native of Greenland.

Smilla is another northern heroine-Queen, embodying all the qualities of this state - independence, logic, authority and independence. Such a woman is brave and cold-blooded, confident and free. She sees everything, understands everything and controls everything. She guides and inspires a man, always remaining herself.

A girl is a different state of a woman. Gentle and kind, loving and meek. A girl is like water, washing away all sorrows, taking away sorrows and giving boundless love, peace and tranquility. In Greek art, this state was embodied in the goddess Aphrodite, who married the Olympian gods and ordinary people.

Afros is Greek for sea foam. Aphrodite was born from the blood of Uranus castrated by Cronus, which fell into the sea and formed foam. Once, as the legend says, Aphrodite emerged from the foam on the coast of the Greek island of Cyprus.

Until now, in Cyprus, this place is popular with tourists who specially come here to plunge into the waters that washed the body of the beautiful goddess, and transform externally and internally. Because of the stones, as if specially scattered near the shore, the sea is always restless here - the waves merrily run on the warm sand, swirl in whirlpools, rage and seem to compose a song in honor of the revered Aphrodite.

This place is also known by the initiates - people who have knowledge and perform energy practices. The place got its name - Petratu Romiou - not by chance. It is associated with one of the exploits of the Byzantine hero Digenis Akritas. It is thanks to him that this little bay is so restless. After all, it was Digenis, according to legend, who threw giant blocks into the water, because of which the water is now foaming near the shore. The hero defended the country from the Saracen invaders who tried to take over the city. One of these boulders was named Petratu Romiou, which translates as "Greek's Stone".

Lovers come here especially. It is believed that bathing in these waters guarantees them a long life together. And if at midnight you muster up the courage and swim past the biggest stone, then you will always be young and beautiful, like a Greek goddess.

Aphrodite had the power of powerful love penetrating the whole world. She is the goddess of eternal spring and life. She is also associated with fertility, so she was always depicted surrounded by flowers - roses, anemones, daffodils, lilies, violets.

This goddess was worshiped in antiquity and is still worshiped. Lovers believe in her power and patronage. And they bring gifts to Aphrodite - chic works of art and cute trinkets, dedicate dances and poems.

For example, these:

I invoke Urania, the Virgin with an immortal smile.

O Aphrodite, sung in hymns, Bringing good!

Sea-born Mother Goddess, Mistress of the Night,

You cover passionate lovers with a misty veil.

You skillfully weave the secret threads of deceit

Into the golden net, O Mother of Ananki, pleasing to the eye.

For You are the source of everything that the bottomless Cosmos reveals to us.

The Trinity Moir obeyed You, O Lady of the world,

The heights of the mountains, the hills and valleys of the fertile land,

The deep seas and the creatures of the sea that dwell in it.

Apec, the god of war and battle, was the husband of Aphrodite. Love keeps the warrior in battle, and the stronger the woman's love, the more protected the man. Therefore, warriors also honor the goddess of love and ask her for protection.

The element of Fire, which controls the state of the Mistress, also has its own goddess - the Indian one. Her name is Shakti, which translates as "strength". It is the creative energy of the universe, embodying the feminine energy.

According to Indian mythology, Shakti was the wife of Shiva, who embodies the divine aspect of every man. She is a fire that burns inside every woman, illuminating everything around and giving creative energy.

In different incarnations, Shakti had many names - for example, Sati. Sati symbolizes marital fidelity, sexual and fruitful passion. This force can be both creative and destructive. Therefore, some men are afraid of such feminine qualities.

A beautiful legend tells about the love of Sati and Shiva. Sati's father, Daksha, decided to marry her off and arranged a kind of bride-to-be. However, he decided not to call Shiva, because he did not recognize him as a god and believed that he would find a better match for his daughter. However, Sati dreamed only of Shiva. And when she threw into the air the garland intended for the groom, she, according to her desire, fell on the neck of Shiva who suddenly appeared.

However, the father of the bride was not at all happy about this. He set out to confront the lovers. So, he even removed Shiva from the sacrifice, which was attended by the rest of the gods.

Sati was offended by this position of her father. She called on Shiva to destroy the sacrifice, and herself, unable to bear the humiliation, threw herself into the sacred fire and burned. (By the way, the term "sati" is still used in India in relation to widows who burn themselves on the funeral pyre of their husband.)

The unfortunate Shiva with the charred body of Sati wandered around the world for a long time, trying to find a way to revive his beloved to life. Finally, the god Vishnu took pity on him. He cut Sati's body into many pieces and scattered the remains, making the places where they fell into centers of pilgrimage. And Sati after some time was reborn as Parvati, the new wife of Shiva.

And although this is just a legend, there are still places in India where people who want to join the ancient cults, find themselves, undergo special practices. One of these places is Khajuraho.

Legends say that the creators of Khajuraho descended from the moon. Hemavati, the beautiful daughter of a Brahmin, was seduced by the moon god while bathing in a river at night. From this union of a mortal and a god, a son, Chandravarman, was born. In those days, an unmarried woman with a child was persecuted and condemned, so Hemavati went to the forests of Central India. There she raised and raised her son, who became the founder of the great Chandela dynasty. When he was recognized as the ruler, he saw in a dream his mother, who begged him to build a temple that sang of human passions. Now, people from different parts of the world come to this temple to feel the great power of passion, the power of fire. After all, this is creative energy, with the help of which a person is capable of creation.

The fourth element, the element of the Earth, gives the woman the state of the Mistress. She communicates solidity, poise, faith in one's own strength, communicates order to everything. Catherine the Great, the Russian Empress, is that woman-Mistress who left a mark on history, which is admired to this day.

Another Indian heroine, Princess Mandarava, embodies the qualities of this state of a woman.

According to legend, Mandarava was the wife of the great guru Padmasambhava, who was called to Tibet to restore order and help Buddhism replace the Bon religion. No matter how many Buddhists built temples, they immediately collapsed - either an earthquake occurred, or a fire, or a strong hurricane swooped in. The priests of the Bon religion did not want to give up their power just like that. Moreover, they ruled the state.

But back to Mandarava.

Long ago, at the end of the 8th century, in one of the regions of India, the beautiful princess Mandarava was born. Since childhood, she has been passionate about the search for sacred knowledge. Mandarava's father invited Guru Padmasambhava to be his daughter's teacher. But one day he caught them doing not sciences, but love. Enraged, he threw his daughter into a pit of thorns and ordered Padmasambhava to be burned. But Padmasambhava turned the fire into a lake of sesame oil. In the middle of the lake, surrounded by flames, a beautiful lotus grew, on which Padmasambhava sat in the body of an eight-year-old child. The amazed king fell on his face and recognized the divinity of Padmasabhava. He offered him his kingdom and his daughter in marriage. So Mandarava became the beloved wife of Guru Padmasambhava, and together they went to the sacred place of power - the cave of Maratika, where they spent three hundred years.

And it was there, in the darkness of the cave, symbolizing wisdom and mastery, that they found the sacred bliss of merging.

Maybe you remembered other stories about the four female states? There are a great many of them. They capture the ancient experience, which was originally preserved in the oral tradition - through fairy tales, legends, myths. By reading them, you, feeling the vibrations and imagining the image, can tune in to a certain state. The heroines changed, but the essence remained the same - every woman has four states of energy that she can and must reveal in herself.

However, is it necessary to look for all these states in oneself? Maybe it's enough to find one thing - something that is closest to you?

No, being in one state is not enough. For example, if the state of the Girl dominates, then everyone around is surprised why such a sweet, kind and obedient girl is still alone, forgetting that it is not the Girl that attracts men, but the passionate Lover. Or, on the contrary, someone likes to be independent and free, to make decisions herself, that is, to be the Queen. This is a wonderful state to deprive a man of his mind, but having achieved his goal, the man expects the tigress to turn into an affectionate kitten, and if this does not happen, then the man, unable to withstand the stress, disappears.

A woman is a unique creature, she can strengthen those energies that are weakly manifested in her. Through the connection with the elements, a woman acquires a new state, integrity and power.

Having experienced all four states, finding yourself in each, you will be able to feel the fullness of life. Perhaps then the person you have always dreamed of will come into your life. However, finding your half is a whole science.

Find out the secret about yourself

I suggest that you “show the cards”, that is, find out what your nature is most inclined to, what energy prevails in you. This is very important so that you can take the shortest path to your wholeness. I want to invite you to find out some details about yourself. What are you - rational or spontaneous? What state prevails in you? What do you strive for as an ideal? And what do you refuse as unnecessary?

I see you are already interested. Let's try.

For those who like tests, I offer a test.

You have to choose description 1 or 2 and 3 or 4 from the first part of the table. Read, try on the descriptions for yourself, and then after the table, see the conclusions.

1. Queen.

2. Girl.

3. Mistress.

4. Mistress.

As a rule, a person has two leading states. And the test shows those states that are given to us from birth. But to find out which states are most manifested at the moment, you can use the Tarolino deck.

"States" layout

Take the Tarolino deck, select four queens from it: the Queen of Water, the Queen of Fire, the Queen of Earth and the Queen of Air. Now lay out the cards face down and face down in one row.

From left to right, start opening the cards. Only queens will have values. So:

the first queen you discover is who you want to be;

the second queen you discover is who you are;

the third queen you discover is what you develop;

the fourth queen you will open is the one you do not accept.

Now you see how the forces of the four states are distributed in you. Working on the book further, you will be able to balance them in order to create wholeness from harmony and show your feminine strength and essence to the end.

The alignment will help you understand why relationships develop in a certain way and what you need to pay attention to. It is in those states that we do not accept that we experience the greatest difficulties in relationships.

At all times, men sought to find the one in whom all states are manifested. They intuitively felt that only such a woman could be their worthy companion, help them gain strength and integrity. Only when a woman connects with a man on all four levels (physical, sexual, emotional and mental), only then the man is filled with energy and ready to perform feats. Only such a woman helps him conquer the world, which he is ready to throw at her feet. Only such a woman can help a man reach those heights that are destined for him by fate.

If a woman is familiar with these states, then she closes the circle of her feminine power and, as a sign of this, receives an engagement ring as a gift.

In his wife, a man wants to see a passionate Mistress, and an inspiring muse or an impregnable Queen, and an enthusiastic Girl, and a zealous Mistress. A man waits, even sometimes unconsciously, for the satisfaction of all his needs - both mental, and emotional, and physical, and sexual. On a physical level, he expects a woman to take care of him, feed him delicious breakfasts or dinners, keep the house in order, support and calm him in difficult moments. We call this state of a woman the Mistress. And at the same time, on an emotional level, he wants to see in his beloved woman a helpless Girl who needs his protection and patronage, a Girl who admires him and enthusiastically listens to his every word. A girl who recklessly believes in his ability to change the world and rejoices in his successes, appreciates his efforts and gifts, even the simplest ones. At the mental level, a man expects from a woman intelligence and education, the ability to conduct an intellectual conversation, to be aware of his affairs and problems, to be able to guide and inspire him, to be able to be interesting and independent, creative and unpredictable. He wants to see in her the Queen, or the muse. But everything pales before what a man is waiting for at night. No wonder they say - "the night cuckoo will cuckle the day." Passionate and skillful Mistress, who knows all the secrets of bed art, secret points on the body of a man, who is not afraid of oral sex, gets unlimited power. A man cannot get enough of such a woman, and he is drawn to her again and again, he longs for her and seeks to spend every night only with her.

But first, each of us is waiting for a period of courtship. How to do everything right at this time?

It is during the courtship period that a woman lives through all four states that we talked about - Girls, Mistresses, Queens and Mistresses. A man seems to be checking how familiar these states are to a woman, whether she can satisfy all his needs. Can he find what he's looking for in one woman?

Why can't a woman be in one state? Why might this backfire on her?

Sometimes it happens that you give not only sexual energy, but also feed a man, take care of him, make decisions for him, without demanding anything in return. But such altruism turns against you. Because the only man to whom you can devote yourself and give everything is your son. If you behave the same way with a man, then he will also feel your mother in you, and this is very dangerous for your relationship. He will respect you, but he will stop wanting you, because there is a ban on incest with “mom”, and therefore he will subconsciously avoid sex with you. Maybe you met such women: you bought a house for him, and fed him, and put him to bed with you. And it is not surprising that he will immediately be carried away by the one he can take care of himself. Men love to take care of little girls, buy them gifts, carry them in their arms, pamper and protect them. That is why the condition of the Girl is so important. However, constant infantilism eventually irritates. We must not forget about the state of the Queen when you are independent and free. When a man feels that you are one step away from leaving. We inspire a man, but at the same time we are interesting in ourselves. Men shower the Queen with gifts, flowers, trying to earn her attention.

So, in the state of the Mistress you give energy, in the state of the Girl you receive, in the state of the Mistress you give, in the state of the Queen you receive.

Usually two conditions are manifested in a woman. Let's say Mistress and Girl. Or Mistress and Queen. Depending on this, a woman attracts a man into her life who could complement her, strengthen those states in which she is not manifested. And vice versa, a man is looking for that woman in whom there is something that he himself lacks. For example, a man in whom practicality and logic are shown will look for a woman in whom emotionality and sexuality are bright - Girl and Lover. And a creative man, in whom sexuality and emotionality are strong, on the contrary, will look for a woman who is dominated by practicality - Earth and logic - Air.

Men, too, experience the power of the elements. The dominance and combination of certain elements turns some into generals, others into artists and lyricists, others into scientists poring over scientific works and trying to comprehend the secrets of the universe, and the fourth into merchants and teachers. These are the four main male clans.

And representatives of each clan have their own dominant needs: intellectual, energetic, emotional, sensory. Depending on them, a man needs and looks for a woman, depending on them, a woman chooses a man.

Ruler clan

Air and Earth are men in whom logic and practicality are clearly manifested. These are born leaders, they know how to manage and carry along. They have a strong will, they are purposeful and persistent. They always achieve the goals that they set for themselves, sweeping away all obstacles in the way. In their understanding, the world is ruled by force, and they know how to manifest it. They rarely fail and do not forgive insults and humiliations, waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. From those around them, they demand order and discipline. They are restrained in the manifestation of their emotions, secretive and jealous. They tend to control every step of a woman and are ready to hide her from everyone.

They are cool about their own appearance, paying more attention to the status of those things that belong to them.

merchant clan

Earth and Water - practicality and emotionality prevail in such men. Emotionality is manifested in the fact that they are perfectly able to capture the mood of others and, just playing along, achieve their goals. They know how to bargain perfectly, always defending their interests. At the same time, they are not prone to sentimentality and romanticism. Their main qualities are freedom of action and thinking, the desire to follow their own impulses. They are unpredictable, risk-averse, optimistic, decisive and not disposed to abstract reasoning. They have a desire for power and glory. They are always confident in themselves and their rightness. They always and in everything try to show their superiority to others, but for all that they are sociable and know how to create a holiday for themselves and others. They have excellent taste and know how to enjoy the beauty of the world around them. They are very sensitive to their own appearance, they dress beautifully. They can show either generosity, showering them with gifts, or stinginess, even in small things. They know how to beautifully look after, delivering both sensual and aesthetic pleasure. Great lovers of women.

They love variety in everything and are constantly in search of new sensations.

creator clan

Water and Fire are those men in whom emotionality and sexuality are more pronounced. High sexuality is manifested in high creative potential. These are men with a rich imagination, able to be fascinated by new opportunities and rush after the “blue bird”. They know how to create something new - they are artists, poets, architects, actors, musicians. They know how to express and evoke the emotions they need. They are dreamy, romantic and capable of beautiful gestures. They are absolutely indifferent to everyday trifles, it does not matter to them where to sleep, what to eat, what and how they are dressed. They need someone to take care of. They are generous and mean at the same time. Creative chaos always reigns in their lives, but it is only in the midst of this chaos that beautiful works of art are born. They sing of the woman, but it is difficult for them to provide for her. They are ready to devote their whole lives to her, but they are unlikely to be able to build a house for her. They live in an imaginary world cut off from reality, and this allows them to create new worlds. But for these worlds to turn into reality, they need someone who will open them and be able to make all their fantasies come true. They are very sexy and inventive.

clan of discoverers

Fire and Air - these men show logic and intuition, as well as sexuality. This is a clan of male discoverers, scientists, researchers. They are always ready to plunge into the unknown to discover the laws that govern the world. They know how to create structures. They easily destroy the old to create something new. They care little about the shape of their house, order or disorder there. They do not pay attention to their health, they can, carried away by work, forget about food. They are indifferent to money and are able to earn easily and spend just as easily. They are not well versed in emotions and therefore prefer not to show their feelings and not let anyone particularly close to their inner world. They seem cold and reserved, but by nature they are very passionate men. They are excellent at arguing their point of view and often, in search of truth, they do not notice how the feelings of other people hurt.

Knowing which clan a man belongs to by birthright allows you to better understand him and accept him for who he is, with all the advantages and limitations. And not to demand from the artist golden palaces, and from the ruler - the expression of strong emotions.

Men are more determined in their manifestations and more lazy. More precisely, more rational. They will not waste time developing what they have poorly manifested. Unlike women, who are more plastic and can develop those energies that, due to upbringing or birth, were poorly manifested in them.

Therefore, a woman, when she knows the four basic states - Mistresses, Queens, Girls and Mistresses - can tune in to any man, understanding what manifestations he expects from her.

On the pages of this book, you will learn how to discover and develop all these states in yourself. Simple exercises and meditations will help you feel them well, get used to them. You will fulfill them without difficulty - after all, you were born a woman, which means that all these states are your inner world. This is a very interesting adventure - knowing yourself.

Are you ready to go on a trip?

State - Queen

Appeal to the element of Air

Close your eyes, take a breath and as you exhale imagine that you are standing on top of a snowy mountain, surrounded by endless expanses of snow shining in the sun. You see next to you the snowy peaks of other mountains going up. You are on top of the world and the whole world is at your feet. You raise your hands up and surrender to the play of the air element, creating air and turning into air yourself. You feel the wind touching your cheeks, playing with your hair, getting under your clothes. You invoke the element of Air: AUM SRI VAYU RAJAS (7 times). You feel that the wind intensifies and you yourself become a hurricane that knows no barriers, all-penetrating, changing everything, free and renewing. And with every second your strength is growing, with every moment the clarity of where to go is increasing. There are no barriers for you, you are where you want to be, you are where you are not expected and where they dream of meeting you. You are the Air, the breath of the Universe, you are the Air, the flow of information, you are the Air, the voice resounding throughout the Universe. The music of the wind and the roar of the hurricane, the whisper of leaves and the ominous howl of a tornado. You are what you want to become, you are what you can be, discarding all doubts, all conventions, all expectations, finding yourself true, free, like the wind, unpredictable and elusive. Always new and always the same.

AUM SRI VAYA RAJAS (3 times). You feel that you calm down and become yourself again, and only a light breeze reminds you of the element of Air. Thank the element of Air for help and strength and open your eyes.

How to become a Queen? How to acquire this majestic royal posture and a special look before which they prostrate? How to be on everyone's lips, while remaining free from human opinion?

Do you think I'll say "easily"?

Nothing like this.

But there is nothing complicated here either.

First of all, you need to realize the qualities that make a woman a Queen. Consciousness is your first tool and reliable friend. After all, the mind is the main assistant to the Queen. The Queen is a woman of a subtle mind.

She not only realized her royal greatness, she discovered in herself a source inner strength but also well versed in the psychology of his surroundings. She does not rule and destroy as she pleases, but she acts according to her mind - she knows when it is better to be angry and when to smile.

The Queen is a subtle psychologist who grasps the mood of the audience with lightning speed. But she does not obey him, but takes him into account in order to lead her own line, to achieve her own goals.

So, she has these goals. She realized what she craves and brings her ideas to life.

The Queen is prone to spiritual quests, looking for her own meaning in life.

But how to find this eternally elusive meaning?

To help you, I offer special exercises and meditations. They will help to reveal your inner world, to feel the special mood of your being - your destiny.

In addition, they will allow you to find in yourself and feel the qualities that make a woman the Queen - independence, love of freedom, self-confidence, unpredictability.

By the way, the element of Air, the element of the Queen, has long helped people to acquire these qualities.

Are you afraid of the cold winter wind? In vain. To you, the Queen, such a wind is a friend. He brings with him new ideas, interesting proposals, tempers your character. Look at the winter wind with different eyes (or better, feel it with your whole being). And you will understand that you are very similar.

wind control

That woman who knows how to control the wind, knows how to fly, can do anything. Wings are freedom. About a person who can fly, they say: "He flew high." Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Spread your arms towards the wind. Turn to the wind with a request to free you from unnecessary delusions, from negative thoughts, from false ideas:

“Lord of the winds, ruler of the boundless sky! Be my patron. Grant me lightness and penetration, thought and insight. Give me strength and power to subdue the unsubdued and fulfill the unfulfilled.”

Imagine that you are standing on the edge and feel the wings growing behind you. You take a breath and as you exhale raise your arms, as if spreading your wings and rising on your toes. You easily soar up and fly in the air currents, enjoying the intoxicating feeling of freedom.

Feel how the wind fills you and carries you forward. You are free and unpredictable. You bathe and play in the air currents, gaining clarity.

If the element of Air does not have power over you, if you are too far from it, follow my advice given below - and attract this element into your life.

Also in this book you will find recommendations of a stylist. Of course, it is not the outfit that makes a woman a Queen - on the contrary, the Queen, putting on any clothes, bestows on her a part of her greatness. And yet you need to know when and what is appropriate to wear, what color to choose. After all, if you are the Queen, then you are able to make a brilliant career. And in career matters, color and cut are also important.

Some tips for starting (and continuing) careers can be found in the pages of the Queen's Handbook.

But, of course, business is not the only application of the talents of a woman in the state of the Queen. Every queen dreams of her king. But where are they, kings, found? How to recognize them among other men? What type of man suits you best? Look for answers in the pages of this book.

And if you like to guess, then I suggest you resort to traditional divination on Tarot cards. Several layouts for success and career affairs will help you when choosing a difficult decision.

cold maiden

Independent and stubborn, independent and logical. A woman in the state of the Queen is brave and cold-blooded, confident and free. She sees everything, understands everything and controls everything. She guides and inspires a man, always remaining herself.

The queen is able to give her companion interesting communication, give information, advice, desire to win, friendship. She represents a challenge for a man, allowing him to perform feats for her sake. In response, she receives admiration, signs of attention, respect and interest.

The state of the Queen is a state of independence and self-sufficiency, awareness of her power and her power. It is the readiness to take the fight and win the fight. It is clarity of thought and sharpness of mind. And the most important thing is inner freedom.

How to acquire these qualities?

How to feel your perfection if you doubt yourself every day - in your appearance, abilities, luck?

To feel like a Queen, you must have the inner knowledge that you are her. An inner unshakable feeling that you are smart, good and unique. And you don't care what others think about you, because deep inside you know that you are you, that you have been given a lot.

No two people are the same, and therefore it is useless to compare yourself with someone. Everyone has something that makes them unique. And when there is a sense of one's own uniqueness and competition disappears, then royal dignity appears.

To be a Queen, you have to be aware. After all, her power is the power of the mind.

Yes, in the state of the Queen, a woman knows no feelings. She evaluates everything at the level of interest: interesting - not interesting. Mental power is information, and she owns it perfectly. And she herself tries to maintain this interest, interrupting her stories at the most interesting place.

“And I will tell about this tomorrow, my lord!” An unfinished action is remembered best.

Just remember that these stories don't have to be about you. They can touch on various topics that excite the imagination - history, politics, philosophy. Therefore, such great attention in noble families has always been paid to education.

You must be good at a lot of things. Indeed, in the state of the Queen, you conquer a man thanks to the mind. And if you win the duel of minds, then you will not be equal.

Another of the qualities of a true Queen is unpredictability. Of course, it is difficult to be unpredictable if you are open to the whole world. Such openness is both a blessing and a danger. Alas, being open is not always good. Remember: when you are unpredictable, a man is predictable. Until he fully knows you, he cannot control the situation, you control the situation. When a man can calculate your reaction, you become a puppet in his hands.

Sometimes, when there seems to be no reason for this, the Queen includes coldness. Yesterday you were soft and gentle, and suddenly you wake up in the morning and pretend that you don’t notice him, busy with your own affairs, thoughts far, far away, talking to him in a cold voice.

And of course, it doesn't need to be explained. Does the Queen have to explain why her mood has changed?

The queen loves power. And should be able to cope with royalty. Don't you feel so ready? In order to feel it, you first need to understand some things.

Fundamentals of Power

Power is when others are ready to serve you and do what you want, when you want it, and in the way you want it, because they believe in you and want to follow you. And they are ready to do this not because of fear, not because of debt, not because of money, but only when they see where you are leading them. Understanding why you do something gives you the right and strength to lead others. Understanding what you serve, understanding your destiny ... Only knowing your destiny, you can gain power, independence and freedom.

How to understand your purpose?

Remember everything that brings you pleasure. When you feel that energy and joy are raging in you from what you are doing, then you are going in the right direction.

When you find your destiny and follow your path, everything that you have studied, everything you have met, everything that you have ever read and heard, adds up to a single picture, like pieces of a mosaic. Try the Purpose meditation on page 51.

It is also important that what you do is needed, in demand, and that you do it in a unique way. You know, when your uniqueness, what brings you pleasure, and the demand for what you do are combined, then this is your destiny. And then this business begins to bring you not only pleasure, but also satisfaction.

It is worth understanding such a thing: you do not so much recognize your destiny as create it, based on what you already have, understanding what you are talented in.

All people are talented. But a person does not always understand what is easiest for him and brings the greatest pleasure, which is his talent.

You've probably heard this saying: success is the result of hard work? This is not true. Success is when things go easy. What goes easy is for sure. What was the easiest thing for you to do when you were in school?

Ron Leider identifies eight types of talent.

Linguistics. You like word games, rhymes, tongue twisters. You use words correctly in speech. If you are attracted to this area, then language - reading, writing, oratory - is your natural gift. Such a person writes well and speaks well.

Logics. Do you count well, love facts, figures, calculations, is it easy for you to keep track of your expenses? If yes, then rational critical thinking, logic and mathematical problem solving are your talents. You like to watch how events line up with a rational approach to life.

Imagination. Do you think in images? Do you have a developed imagination, perception of colors, shapes, textures? If you belong to this type of people, then your talents are to think in images, to see the world through form and color. You have a good imagination, you can draw well, visualize your thoughts and ideas, easily transferring three-dimensional space to paper.

Music. Do you like to listen and hum melodies, sing along to music on the radio or TV? Do you feel and understand the rhythm? If yes, then music, singing, ear for music, sense of rhythm is your gift. You love music and are easily versed in its various directions.

Kinesthetics. Do you like sports various exercises and dancing, do you like to work with your hands? Are you moving nicely? If yes, then your talents are sports and body control, solving issues that require the ability to work with your hands. You can design models, sculpt, dance, as you enjoy any physical activity.

Interpersonal relationships. Are you indifferent to other people's feelings? At your place a good relationship with the team? You can easily find mutual language with people and enjoy working in a team? If yes, then your calling is to work with people, understanding their needs, feelings and desires. You are able to see the world through the eyes of others, understand their point of view and interact effectively with the people around you.

Reflection. Do you like to engage in introspection, thinking about your own actions? Do you like being alone and thinking? Are you reflective? Then focusing on yourself, understanding your inner needs and feelings is what you tend to be. You like to spend time alone, reflect on life, you are an independent and disciplined person, you are guided by deeply personal motives.

Modeling (natural science). Do you like to classify and analyze events and phenomena? If yes, then knowledge and systemic classification of the world around us, analysis are your inclinations. You have an intuitive understanding of how the world should work, and you can easily understand its internal system (internal structure).

In order to become more inaccessible, detached, independent, powerful, you first need to change your inner reality. And for this you need to change your thoughts about yourself and allow your body to accept the new reality.

Everything we are is recorded in our billions of cells. Everyone has their own inner universe, and a person is more like a collective mind. To change your information field, you need to change the information in every cell of your body.

To do this, take a piece of paper. In one column, write everything that you don’t like about yourself, starting with the words: “I am the one who ...”, and in the other write what you would like to be: “I am the one who ...” For example, in the left column you you write: "I am the one who is not confident in my decisions," and on the right you write: "I am the one who is confident in my decisions." And so - about everything that prevents you from feeling like a Queen. Try not to use the "not" particle in the right column.

You imagine yourself as a Queen sitting on a throne, and in front of you is your people - these are your cells, molecules, neurons. Your people, whom you command. They look at you and wait for you to tell them. You read once what is written in the left column, which prevents you from feeling like a Queen, and declare: “That was my old choice. I don't play this game anymore." And after that, in a deep voice, imperiously and authoritatively, you read out three times what you are now.

You speak in such a way that all the billions of worlds inside you hear your words and accept that from now on it will be this way and nothing else. Our brain is so arranged that the first thought is not perceived by the brain as a command. You never know what comes into your head ... Only when something is said three times, the world understands that this is a serious statement, and changes begin to occur. After you have read your statement, you repeat three times: “This is my new choice. Get to work, so be it. Amen" - and hit the ground with an imaginary staff three times. You repeat the statement about who you are now for twenty-one days or longer, until you feel inside that your whole being believes it. You can write this statement on a piece of paper and read it as a decree or hang it on the wall in beautiful handwriting and in large letters.

In the power of the air element

The Queen's Element is Air.

Air is unlimited freedom. This is a huge sky with a myriad of stars or an endless snowy expanse.

The air is changeable. He is never the same. And every season it brings something special, unique.

Frosty winter air is like a breath of outer space: distant, abstract, inviting.

The refreshing air of spring is a sign of change, renewal, unpredictability.

The sultry air of summer is anticipation and longing, a hint of adventure.

Raw autumn air is the aroma of a thousand shades, like the taste of a gourmet dish.

And yet the element of Air is primarily associated with winter. What is winter air like?

Cold - aloof.

Boundless.

Aspiring to spirituality.

Independent.

Feel the element of Air on a cold winter day. Go outside and expose your face to the wind. Let it be cold, sharp or even prickly. Don't close yourself off from it, let the elements in. And learn from her to be what she really is: defiantly free, independent and independent.

Don't be afraid to freeze yourself. Because sometimes you have to be cold and detached. Feel what it's like to easily enter this state when you need it.

Try the meditation "Connecting with the element of Air."

Connection with the element of Air

Sit on a chair, straighten your back. Close your eyes and as you exhale imagine yourself standing on top of a snowy mountain. You feel the wind touch your face, and you see how a huge stream begins to form an air funnel in front of you. Inside this funnel, a priestess of the element of Air appears. She is dressed in a bluish outfit, she has white hair, a cold look of blue eyes, she is stately and slender. Her shoulders are turned, her head is raised majestically. She seems to be looking towards the sky. Her movements are unhurried, calm grandeur is felt in her. She is unpredictable and independent, she is free and inaccessible. She knows everything, sees everything, understands everything.

Merge with her vibrations, become a priestess of the element of Air yourself. Feel in yourself detachment and self-sufficiency, your value and your greatness. Take a breath and as you exhale sing the sound “ho”, which amplifies the vibrations of the element of Air. Thank the element of Air and return to reality.

A flexible mind, love of freedom, sociability and compromise - these are the qualities that the element of Air endows.

First of all, in the power of the air element, a person is able to capture ideas and transmit them to others. Air signs are good teachers. They know how to wrap an idea in a beautiful package and effectively present it without losing the content behind the external beauties. Woman-Air can be artistic, bewitching, fascinating.

But she can also become a slave to her idea. After all, enthusiasm can develop into inertia, adherence to strictly defined settings.

How to get out of this trap?

Get involved in something else.

People of the air element are often accused of inconstancy. But is it worth it to reproach them for it? Air does not tolerate boundaries, it cannot be held. This love of freedom can annoy someone, but most men are fascinated by the inconstancy of the Queen. Yes, she keeps them in good shape, does not let them relax. And most importantly - do not get bored!

The Queen herself is never bored. The air gives her this eternal desire for novelty. But this is not just a pursuit of something new, but a deep desire to grow internally. The queen is striving for spirituality and is not afraid of the new - including knowledge of what she really is.

The element of Air does not set the rhythm, but maintains it. Changes, passes it on to others. This is why communication is so important for air signs. A woman in the power of the air element can even become overly talkative. But people love to talk to her - so is it possible to deny yourself a pleasant conversation ... Even if for three hours.

Others see not only the detachment, independence of the Queen, but also her passion for what she believes in. They are drawn to it, wanting to be caught up in a whirlwind of ideas, something unexpected and new.

In communication, the Queen can show a certain flexibility. After all, her royal greatness lies not in commanding everyone, but in capturing the moods of others, creating a special atmosphere, communicating to everyone's pleasure.

Air resonates beautifully with other signs.

Thanks to the airy lightness, the Queen feels the situation well and can easily adapt to it. She doesn't like conflict. Air sign people can be very delicate and exquisitely polite. They subtly feel the ceremonial and even love conventions. The intellectual pursuits to which they are inclined only strengthen them in aristocratic preferences.

But the element of Air can incline the Queen to excessive compromise. It is important to notice this in time.

Air brings people together. A unified field of thoughts creates a special environment for human communication, various contacts and meetings. Air is an active, fast element. He cannot be held. But he himself does not always withstand one direction of movement - under the influence of various ideas, the air can rush from side to side, lean to one or the other, easily changing its preferences. Unpredictability is both its advantage and disadvantage. Sometimes air signs are even accused of duplicity.

Air signs are endowed with great imagination. Having grasped any idea, they complete it thanks to their imagination. People around perceive them as lively, sociable and cheerful people.

Air people don't want to be related people or circumstances. Often, carried away by some ideas, they have a very poor idea of ​​the affairs of their loved ones. And therefore, sometimes they tend to not embarrass themselves with close relationships. The house of people of the air element is always free from unnecessary items, bulky furniture and other things. In the environment, they try to create an atmosphere of peace and prefer a lot of free space.

So, the main qualities of this element are infinity, speed, unpredictability. The Queen's thoughts are of scale and height, and her ideas are exquisite and captivating.

How to strengthen the element of Air?

The Queen's stone is a sapphire. It helps to focus, keep calm and prudence. It is a guide to spiritual perfection, which stimulates inner focus and concentration.

Wear this stone and it will keep the air element in you.

Blue sapphire is the source of your royalty. In the old days, it was believed that sapphires were petrified stones of a divine drink that bestowed immortality.

Indeed, according to legend, sapphire endowed its owner with divine qualities (in the Middle Ages in Europe it was called the royal gem). He communicated to his owner fearlessness, courage and composure. Man's thoughts became sublime. He did not inspire envy in others, causing only admiration.

Sapphire was also used for medical purposes. Thus, the cold color of this stone soothed the "inner heat" (saying modern language lowered the temperature).

In the old days, sapphire was indeed treated. It was crushed, mixed with milk and used for rubbing into the body - skin diseases were treated with this medicine. Sapphire was also famous for its effect on headaches - they were cured of migraines. The properties of this stone are so diverse that they even corrected speech defects.

And the brilliant Avicenna believed that sapphire could get rid of melancholy.

Sapphires were worn by Alexander the Great, Queen Mary Stuart and other great people. It is generally recognized that sapphire strengthens spirituality in a person and enhances spiritual contact with the cosmos.

Awakening the Power of the Stone

Take a sapphire or any jewelry with this stone, hold it between your fingers. Turn to the spirit of the stone: "Rushing on the wings of the wind, grant me power and strength." After holding the stone for ten minutes and feeling the vibrations, thank the spirit of the stone and lay it down.

You can strengthen the air element not only by putting a sapphire ring on your finger, but also by activating the element in your home.

For this, a variety of windmills, flags, bells, mobiles are suitable - everything that moves from the slightest breeze. Accordingly, it is worth hanging them where the movement of air will cause the activity of the mobile.

Such a mobile can be made by hand. To do this, you will first need feathers, which symbolize the element of Air. You will also need flexible rods or cords with which you can secure the feathers. Hang the last ones to a circle made of twigs or twigs. They should hang freely down, catching every gust of wind. Beads, ribbons and other light decorations will complete the composition. Hang the "wind chime" in the center of the room, in the hallway, or anywhere else where it will move easily.

Of course, if you live in an area where the air quality leaves much to be desired, you will have to think about improving it. It may even be worth buying special air purification systems, changing air conditioner filters more often.

The element of Air can also be activated with the help of sounds.

We often underestimate the sounds we hear. But sound has great power. Even the sounds that enter the house in your absence have an impact on the home environment.

The sounds of construction and the sounds of flying aircraft have a negative impact. Birdsong or bell ringing will bring positive energy into the apartment.

Of course, if construction has begun under your window, you cannot avoid some sounds. However, you can fill your home with music, audio recordings of nature sounds, and all this will remove the negative background of the street. A harmonious selection of music will help improve the vibrations of your home and strengthen the element of Air.

Exercises for the Queen

In order to become a Queen, you will have to practice a little. Surely, each of us has complexes and old beliefs, resentment against ourselves and bad memories. However, the Queen must get rid of all this. This is what we're going to do now.

Letting go of resentment towards yourself

Resentment against yourself can prevent you from feeling like a true Queen. You need to get rid of it. After all, resentment against oneself can destroy a person the most and turn him into a slave, energetically lower him into a zone of dirt. Do you remember the pose of a prostrate slave lying on the ground? If you are offended by yourself because something doesn’t work out for you, that you are ugly or stupid, you immediately turn into this slave! In order to rise from the zone of low vibrations of diseases, poverty and humiliation to the zone of high vibrations of happiness and prosperity, first of all, you need to remove resentment against yourself.

Lie down on the floor in a slave position, right hand in front. Feel the depth of this resentment and decide that you will remove this resentment.

Now decide for yourself: "I am a smart, beautiful, successful and very diligent student."

Then get on your left knee and cut off all the fetters from your right knee that bind you to this state. Do this with chopping motions three times three times from right to left. Now straighten up and remove all the fetters from your left knee! You are ready to meet any blows of fate, without blaming yourself for it and without being offended by yourself!

Now put on your imaginary riding costume. While inhaling, put on over the knee boots that protect you from the dirt zone (37 cm from the ground) and the pain zone (72 cm high), then a wide belt that covers your lower centers and keeps you from the bad zone (137 cm), and finally sit on horse. The horse is our lust, sexual desire! (Sexual energy can carry you like a horse if you don't know how to control it.) Whoever cannot bridle this horse rushes to the abyss, and whoever knows how to control it can conquer the whole world. He will be lucky in everything! The height of the withers of the horse is 156 cm, the same height is the zone of luck. Therefore, they say about a lucky person: "He is on a horse." How to sit on a horse? The right hand is in front, the left is behind, while inhaling, connect them into a lock between the legs and make eight high jumps.

Create a shield

Take a piece of paper and draw a shield. Then divide it into four parts - three at the top and one at the bottom. On the left side, write your most important achievement in life and draw a symbol that reflects this achievement. In the center, draw a symbol of yourself, in the right, write your goal and draw a symbol that expresses your goal. Write your motto below. These symbols will create your personal code for you.

Code Inclusion

Each of us has our own special code. Turning it on, you become the Queen. People see your personal code, read it, recognize you by it. Here's how to turn it on.

As you exhale, raise your arms above your head. As you inhale, lower them to chest level, exhale, and as you inhale, take your shield and place it in front of you. While holding your breath, feel how the shield closes everything your body, and as you exhale, slowly spread your arms to the sides. You feel that your shield protects you and at the same time represents you the way you would like to be perceived. And it helps you act like a king.

Rhythm of Pleasure

To know your purpose, you need to understand what you like most in the world. It's not always easy. But you can not suffer, but, on the contrary, find a purpose by entering the rhythm of pleasure. This can be done through Odin, the ancient god of the Vikings.

Put your feet shoulder width apart. As you exhale, clasp your hands above your head. Then connect the thumb and little finger of the left hand and put in the dimple under the nose, the point of great memory, the point of our goal. Inhale, as you exhale, turn to the left and say aloud, "One", taking the energy from the past and asking for permission to enjoy.

Connect the thumb and little finger of the right hand and also place it at the point of great memory. Turn to the right and as you exhale, say "One", taking energy into the future and asking for permission to enjoy.

Place the fingers of your right and left hands at the point of great memory, look forward to the present, and say: "One", taking the energy in the present.

Then, as you exhale, raise your hands, imagine horns like the horns on the helmets of the ancient Vikings, and ask permission to climb the sacred Mount Meru and find out your purpose, your destiny.

Of course, you can climb Mount Meru only in your imagination. Once upon a time, Mount Meru was called the main peak of the Earth. It rose in the center of the ancient continent of Hyperborea and was considered the sacred center of the world. Standing on this peak, you can ask a question about your destiny. Do it in your imagination. So you can get information from another dimension.

purpose

Imagine that you are on top of the world, on Mount Meru. Around you are only snowy peaks, standing for millions of years and keeping the answers to all questions. Take a deep breath of cold air and exhale as you join your hands above your head. As you inhale, lower them to the level of your heart, and as you exhale, lower them even lower, to the ground, touching the ground, connecting with it, gaining “rootedness”. Then, as you inhale, raise your hands again to the level of your heart, palms down, swap palms and raise your hands up, turning your palms to the sky, and ask: "What is my purpose?" or “Why did I come into this world?”.

You stand and feel like a part of something bigger than you, a part of the great universal plan. And in the implementation of this plan there is your contribution, your mission. You can see the answer in the pattern of clouds, hear it in the sound of the wind, it can come in the form of a sign, in the form of a line in a book, in the form of a gift. Ask a question and let the world answer it.

You came into this world for something important, and in the depths of your soul there is an answer to the question of what you serve.

Getting rid of addiction

The vision of a global goal, one's destiny inspires. But your addiction to many things can prevent you from taking off.

Of course, you may even enjoy being attached to other people or things. Sometimes it's good, but sometimes it leaves you no choice. You begin to depend on someone else's opinion, on external conventions. The Queen is not afraid to lose what she has - relationships, money, opportunities, status. She knows how not to lose, but if she loses, then ... she also knows what she will do. "Expect for the best, prepare for the worst." Her independence binds stronger than any fetters.

Do this exercise to get rid of addictions.

Take a step and imagine how all your old ideas about the world that prevent you from living, your beliefs and values ​​\u200b\u200bthat hinder you are left behind. At each step, imagine what you are attached to in the form of shackles with a heavy ball and, as you exhale, shake off your leg, freeing yourself from your attachments, freeing yourself from this burden.

With each step you will feel more and more free.

Body building

The body must be ready to hold power and space. It must be built in a special way. This is done through breathing.

The body is a system of energy, which must be in divine proportions. But we often forget about the sacredness of our body and sink down. No mechanical exercises help to achieve harmony - only breathing allows the body to open up.

Stand on full feet and, breathing in through your nose, fill your back, shoulders, straightening and releasing them, and exhale through the top of your head, feeling how you are pulled up, how your stomach is getting up, how your back is straightening, how your spine is stretching. The force of levitation is stronger than the force of gravity, if we remember it. A sacred axis of the spine is being built in you, through which you are connected with the energy of the Cosmos, with your mission. Straighten your shoulders.

Removing the yoke of problems

Sometimes our back is too bent, because we sometimes hang too many problems on ourselves. The true Queen always has a straight back.

How to remove problems? When a person takes on too many other people's problems, and even his own, a yoke appears around his neck, and before you feel like a Queen, you need to remove this yoke.

Take a breath and clasp your hands behind your neck. As you exhale, break this lock and, bringing your hands to the center of your chest, remove the halves of the yoke from your shoulders. In the center of the chest, these halves are fastened with a peg. And very often a person begins to feel that he has a stake in his chest. As you inhale, take this peg out of your chest, look at it while holding your breath, and as you exhale, throw away and throw off the problems of all men hanging on you from your right shoulder, and the problems of all women hanging on you from your left.

Raise your chin and release your decision center, your power center.

Valkyrie armor

Valkyrie can help you show your superiority and make you invulnerable.

Take a breath and as you exhale, enter the energy flow. As you inhale from the thin space, take out the Valkyrie's golden armor and put it on as you exhale. Armor helps you feel protected and keep your distance. Sit on a winged horse - right hand in front, left behind, inhale, exhale and, as you inhale, join your hands between your legs.

Imagine how you increase in size and look at a man from top to bottom. Next to such a woman, a man will feel completely insignificant.

The power of feathers

When we want to shed and remove all negativity, all obsessive ideas about the world and ourselves, all doubts about our power and strength, we can use the power lurking in feathers. Feather is a symbol of the element of Air. And this element helps to clarify your mind, remove old ideas and doubts, free yourself from unnecessary thoughts, from other people's opinions, from conventions. Repeat the following words three times and blow on the pen three times.

Light feathers, airy feathers,

Take my doubts to heaven,

Be obedient to me free winds,

Give me clarity of thought.

Meditation Queen

In the royal chambers

This meditation is a journey through your world. The second womb of feminine nature is in the cavity of your mouth, your palate is the dome of your throne room. This is the place where you will sit and gain strength!

Touch your tongue to the palate and feel that the darkness is gradually dissipating and you find yourself in the throne room. Look how the walls are decorated, how the floor is decorated! Come to your throne, see what material it is made of, touch it! And just as we cleaned up the first womb of female nature, so you need to clean up the throne room. Remove all rubbish, all age-old dust, everything unnecessary and broken. And, having put things in order, go to the windows and open them, filling the space with light and fresh, cool air. Look out of the very last window and admire your royal garden and babbling fountains. And, feeling light and weightless, flutter out of the window. Fly around the palace, look at its turrets and decorations. And go on a journey through the world that you have to manage. Look into the most hidden corners - arable land, forests, springs, look at your subjects. And, having accepted and loved your world, return to the palace.

Everything is ready in the palace for your coronation. Everyone is waiting for you - men are on the right hand, women are on the left. Solemn music sounds, and you enter the throne room. You feel a robe being thrown around your shoulders and you are led to the throne. You hear the sounds of prayer, sit on the throne and feel how a crown is placed on your head. You feel its weight and you feel how the scepter and orb are being put into your hands. From now on, your every word is law. You are aware of your power and your power. From now on, it's up to you to decide who to execute and who to pardon! From now on you are the Queen!

Queen's clothes

The future queen was taught how to stay covered up even when she was naked. First put on imaginary clothes from the subtle space. Start with underwear. Lace, silk, velvet - everything that touches your skin should be the most expensive. Linen holds your structure. As you inhale, take the underwear from the thin space and, as you exhale, put it on yourself. Then, while inhaling, take stockings, a belt, and put it on as you exhale. Choose the most luxurious shoes and wear them too. Don't stop your imagination, you can choose anything. Any of your whims will be fulfilled immediately.

Then take the dress as you inhale and put it on as you exhale. Finally, it was time for the jewels. Jewelery amplifies and focuses energy, helping to hold space and subjects. It's time to put on the crown. Place your right hand on your forehead, left hand on the back of your head. Inhale, moving your hands in a circle so that the left is on the forehead, and the right on the back of the head, and as you exhale, return your hands to their previous position (right on the forehead, left on the back of the head), feeling the crown on your head. And when the vestment is completed, you are ready to go to the throne room.

Throne room

Only now, when you are energetically dressed, can you change into a real outfit, and it will only emphasize your greatness, and not hide it. The throne room is already full of subjects awaiting your arrival.

Sit on the throne. Feel the weight of the crown on your head. Feel your power, might and greatness. In your hands are the symbols of power - the scepter and orb. Orb - a golden ball, symbolizing the power that you gain over your world. From now on, everything in this world will happen the way you want. And only you can decide what will happen in your life, and what will never happen.

Look at your subjects: on the left side are women, on the right - men. Men approach you one by one and get down on one knee. The scepter in your hands turns into a sword - put it on the head of everyone, dedicating him to your knights. From now on, they are ready to serve you and obey your orders, to protect your honor and dignity. Women come up to you and curtsy, consecrate them as ladies-in-waiting. From now on, they are also ready to support you.

Now you have a throne on which you can sit, which will be your "throne of illumination." Every time you need some information, you can sit on this throne and ask for it.

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Larisa Renard
Four facets of perfection. Annual Femininity Return Program

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Introduction
The four states of a woman

Have you noticed that every season you feel in a different way?

In winter, you feel how the cold forces you to be rational and prudent. Indeed, in bad weather, you don’t want to leave the house once again, and you think through every step you take. The view of the snowy plain awakens thoughts of freedom. The icy wind makes you shackle yourself in the armor of coldness.

And yet, at home, in a friendly circle, you melt from the warmth and sensitively capture the moods of those around you. Feelings awaken in you.

They will flood like a river when March comes. Your mood will quickly change, it will be impossible to keep up with it. All the plans built in the winter will collapse - in the spring their logic is no longer in demand. Sometimes you start behaving like in childhood - you are capricious, picky, you are hard to please. Yes, you yourself do not know what you want in the spring. Or do you know? For someone to take your whims seriously, to take care of that little girl who woke up in you with the March sun?

The summer sun will awaken strong passions in you. They are difficult to control, impossible to manage. It is worth the fire to flare up, and its flame already lives its own life - obeys its own laws. You become bold and even daring and dive headlong into the pool of passion. And if in the summer you completely surrender to your inner fire, then by the fall you emerge from this pool as a luxurious beauty.

Your September state is like the rich colors of an autumn landscape. There are many shades of complex feelings in your soul that you catch in yourself and those around you. And people are drawn to you to hear a kind word or wise advice. You radiate the fullness of life, calmness and self-confidence.

Each season is associated with one of the four major women's fortunes. In winter, this is the state of the Queen - self-sufficient, independent, rational. In spring - the state of the Girl, trusting, loving, open. In summer - the state of the Mistress, passionate, bright and exciting the male imagination. And in autumn - the state of the Mistress, confident, calm and wise.

Each of these states is not just a set of qualities, but a manifestation of four forms of female energy.

Maybe you haven't heard about it. But this does not mean that these states are unfamiliar to you. The one born of a woman is already born with intuitive knowledge of all four states. Just the degree of manifestation of these conditions for different women is different. In someone, the Lover is more manifested, in someone the Queen is more, in someone the Mistress is more, and in someone - the Girl.

The states of female energy are associated with the natural elements - Earth, Air, Water and Fire.

Each element gives you a certain energy at the time of your birth. The element of Earth, strong and essential, endows a woman with calmness, practicality, solidity and reliability (the state of the Mistress), the element of Fire, hot and pulsating, makes a woman sensual and impulsive, passionate and sexual (the state of the Mistress). The element of Water gives us emotionality and spontaneity, playfulness and softness (the condition of a Girl). Air helps us to become self-reliant and purposeful, independent and logical (the state of the Queen).

All these states are depicted in the legends and tales of different peoples. Of course, you learned about the Queen's condition in childhood from the fairy tale "The Snow Queen" by Hans Christian Andersen. Not surprisingly, the Danish writer turned to this topic. After all, Denmark is a country with ancient royal traditions. Therefore, here the story of the Snow Queen could happen, dazzling, powerful and so attractive that she even managed to win Kai's kind children's heart, enchanting him with her magnificence. Andersen guessed and embodied in this image those qualities of the Queen that still excite the imagination of many men. The white snowy kingdom, the vast expanse - all these are the possessions of the Queen, a proud and shining woman, the conqueror of men's hearts.

In Russian fairy tales, we can also meet the image of the queen - this is the Swan Princess, sung by Pushkin, Vrubel and other geniuses. The swan was once the king of all birds. Since then, legends about swan maidens have appeared in the mythology of the northern peoples as a symbol of royal power, unfading beauty and communion with sacred knowledge.

In Scandinavian mythology, swan maidens turned into Valkyries, warrior maidens on winged horses. But, like swan maidens, they fly to a river or lake and, throwing off their clothes, turn into fabulous beauties. It is believed that only the one who hides their clothes can gain power over them.

The Queen symbolizes the element of Air. And most of the practices associated with the element of Air originated from the northern tradition, from the Arctic ancestral home of our civilization - Hyperborea, the disappeared mainland in the Far North. The Hellenes came up with this word, calling the country behind the north wind Boreas, stretching for many hundreds of kilometers. As legends tell, the climate there was mild and warm, and this region prospered, striking with its wealth. It was there that the main pyramid of the Earth towered - Mount Meru, the ancient mythical sacred center of the world. But the fall of the asteroid changed the axis of rotation of the Earth, and the ancient northern continent went under water. Only a part of the great continent remained, Greenland, bound by ice, which keeps its secrets.

You may have read the book or watched the movie Smilla's Snow Feeling. About a girl who had an amazing intuitive understanding of snow, about a girl who loved endless expanses and mathematics, the abstract science of numbers and formulas. This is the story of a stubborn and courageous heroine who firmly decided to unravel the mystery of the death of her little friend, a native of Greenland.

Smilla is another northern heroine-Queen, embodying all the qualities of this state - independence, logic, authority and independence. Such a woman is brave and cold-blooded, confident and free. She sees everything, understands everything and controls everything. She guides and inspires a man, always remaining herself.

A girl is a different state of a woman. Gentle and kind, loving and meek. A girl is like water, washing away all sorrows, taking away sorrows and giving boundless love, peace and tranquility. In Greek art, this state was embodied in the goddess Aphrodite, who married the Olympian gods and ordinary people.

Afros is Greek for sea foam. Aphrodite was born from the blood of Uranus castrated by Cronus, which fell into the sea and formed foam. Once, as the legend says, Aphrodite emerged from the foam on the coast of the Greek island of Cyprus.

Until now, in Cyprus, this place is popular with tourists who specially come here to plunge into the waters that washed the body of the beautiful goddess, and transform externally and internally. Because of the stones, as if specially scattered near the shore, the sea is always restless here - the waves merrily run on the warm sand, swirl in whirlpools, rage and seem to compose a song in honor of the revered Aphrodite.

This place is also known by the initiates - people who have knowledge and perform energy practices. The place got its name - Petratu Romiou - not by chance. It is associated with one of the exploits of the Byzantine hero Digenis Akritas. It is thanks to him that this little bay is so restless. After all, it was Digenis, according to legend, who threw giant blocks into the water, because of which the water is now foaming near the shore. The hero defended the country from the Saracen invaders who tried to take over the city. One of these boulders was named Petratu Romiou, which translates as "Greek's Stone".

Lovers come here especially. It is believed that bathing in these waters guarantees them a long life together. And if at midnight you muster up the courage and swim past the biggest stone, then you will always be young and beautiful, like a Greek goddess.

Aphrodite had the power of powerful love penetrating the whole world. She is the goddess of eternal spring and life. She is also associated with fertility, so she was always depicted surrounded by flowers - roses, anemones, daffodils, lilies, violets.

This goddess was worshiped in antiquity and is still worshiped. Lovers believe in her power and patronage. And they bring gifts to Aphrodite - chic works of art and cute trinkets, dedicate dances and poems.

For example, these:

I invoke Urania, the Virgin with an immortal smile.
O Aphrodite, sung in hymns, Bringing good!
Sea-born Mother Goddess, Mistress of the Night,
You cover passionate lovers with a misty veil.
You skillfully weave the secret threads of deceit
Into the golden net, O Mother of Ananki, pleasing to the eye.
For You are the source of everything that the bottomless Cosmos reveals to us.
The Trinity Moir obeyed You, O Lady of the world,
The heights of the mountains, the hills and valleys of the fertile land,
The deep seas and the creatures of the sea that dwell in it.

Apec, the god of war and battle, was the husband of Aphrodite. Love keeps the warrior in battle, and the stronger the woman's love, the more protected the man. Therefore, warriors also honor the goddess of love and ask her for protection.

The element of Fire, which controls the state of the Mistress, also has its own goddess - the Indian one. Her name is Shakti, which translates as "strength". It is the creative energy of the universe, embodying the feminine energy.

According to Indian mythology, Shakti was the wife of Shiva, who embodies the divine aspect of every man. She is a fire that burns inside every woman, illuminating everything around and giving creative energy.

In different incarnations, Shakti had many names - for example, Sati. Sati symbolizes marital fidelity, sexual and fruitful passion. This force can be both creative and destructive. Therefore, some men are afraid of such feminine qualities.

A beautiful legend tells about the love of Sati and Shiva. Sati's father, Daksha, decided to marry her off and arranged a kind of bride-to-be. However, he decided not to call Shiva, because he did not recognize him as a god and believed that he would find a better match for his daughter. However, Sati dreamed only of Shiva. And when she threw into the air the garland intended for the groom, she, according to her desire, fell on the neck of Shiva who suddenly appeared.

However, the father of the bride was not at all happy about this. He set out to confront the lovers. So, he even removed Shiva from the sacrifice, which was attended by the rest of the gods.

Sati was offended by this position of her father. She called on Shiva to destroy the sacrifice, and herself, unable to bear the humiliation, threw herself into the sacred fire and burned. (By the way, the term "sati" is still used in India in relation to widows who burn themselves on the funeral pyre of their husband.)

The unfortunate Shiva with the charred body of Sati wandered around the world for a long time, trying to find a way to revive his beloved to life. Finally, the god Vishnu took pity on him. He cut Sati's body into many pieces and scattered the remains, making the places where they fell into centers of pilgrimage. And Sati after some time was reborn as Parvati, the new wife of Shiva.

And although this is just a legend, there are still places in India where people who want to join the ancient cults, find themselves, undergo special practices. One of these places is Khajuraho.

Legends say that the creators of Khajuraho descended from the moon. Hemavati, the beautiful daughter of a Brahmin, was seduced by the moon god while bathing in a river at night. From this union of a mortal and a god, a son, Chandravarman, was born. In those days, an unmarried woman with a child was persecuted and condemned, so Hemavati went to the forests of Central India. There she raised and raised her son, who became the founder of the great Chandela dynasty. When he was recognized as the ruler, he saw in a dream his mother, who begged him to build a temple that sang of human passions. Now, people from different parts of the world come to this temple to feel the great power of passion, the power of fire. After all, this is creative energy, with the help of which a person is capable of creation.

The fourth element, the element of the Earth, gives the woman the state of the Mistress. She communicates solidity, poise, faith in one's own strength, communicates order to everything. Catherine the Great, the Russian Empress, is that woman-Mistress who left a mark on history, which is admired to this day.

Another Indian heroine, Princess Mandarava, embodies the qualities of this state of a woman.

According to legend, Mandarava was the wife of the great guru Padmasambhava, who was called to Tibet to restore order and help Buddhism replace the Bon religion. No matter how many Buddhists built temples, they immediately collapsed - either an earthquake occurred, or a fire, or a strong hurricane swooped in. The priests of the Bon religion did not want to give up their power just like that. Moreover, they ruled the state.

But back to Mandarava.

Long ago, at the end of the 8th century, in one of the regions of India, the beautiful princess Mandarava was born. Since childhood, she has been passionate about the search for sacred knowledge. Mandarava's father invited Guru Padmasambhava to be his daughter's teacher. But one day he caught them doing not sciences, but love. Enraged, he threw his daughter into a pit of thorns and ordered Padmasambhava to be burned. But Padmasambhava turned the fire into a lake of sesame oil. In the middle of the lake, surrounded by flames, a beautiful lotus grew, on which Padmasambhava sat in the body of an eight-year-old child. The amazed king fell on his face and recognized the divinity of Padmasabhava. He offered him his kingdom and his daughter in marriage. So Mandarava became the beloved wife of Guru Padmasambhava, and together they went to the sacred place of power - the cave of Maratika, where they spent three hundred years.

And it was there, in the darkness of the cave, symbolizing wisdom and mastery, that they found the sacred bliss of merging.

Maybe you remembered other stories about the four female states? There are a great many of them. They capture the ancient experience, which was originally preserved in the oral tradition - through fairy tales, legends, myths. By reading them, you, feeling the vibrations and imagining the image, can tune in to a certain state. The heroines changed, but the essence remained the same - every woman has four states of energy that she can and must reveal in herself.

However, is it necessary to look for all these states in oneself? Maybe it's enough to find one thing - something that is closest to you?

No, being in one state is not enough. For example, if the state of the Girl dominates, then everyone around is surprised why such a sweet, kind and obedient girl is still alone, forgetting that it is not the Girl that attracts men, but the passionate Lover. Or, on the contrary, someone likes to be independent and free, to make decisions herself, that is, to be the Queen. This is a wonderful state to deprive a man of his mind, but having achieved his goal, the man expects the tigress to turn into an affectionate kitten, and if this does not happen, then the man, unable to withstand the stress, disappears.

A woman is a unique creature, she can strengthen those energies that are weakly manifested in her. Through the connection with the elements, a woman acquires a new state, integrity and power.

Having experienced all four states, finding yourself in each, you will be able to feel the fullness of life. Perhaps then the person you have always dreamed of will come into your life. However, finding your half is a whole science.

Find out the secret about yourself

I suggest that you “show the cards”, that is, find out what your nature is most inclined to, what energy prevails in you. This is very important so that you can take the shortest path to your wholeness. I want to invite you to find out some details about yourself. What are you - rational or spontaneous? What state prevails in you? What do you strive for as an ideal? And what do you refuse as unnecessary?

I see you are already interested. Let's try.

For those who like tests, I offer a test.

You have to choose description 1 or 2 and 3 or 4 from the first part of the table. Read, try on the descriptions for yourself, and then after the table, see the conclusions.

1. Queen.

2. Girl.

3. Mistress.

4. Mistress.

As a rule, a person has two leading states. And the test shows those states that are given to us from birth. But to find out which states are most manifested at the moment, you can use the Tarolino deck.

"States" layout

Take the Tarolino deck, select four queens from it: the Queen of Water, the Queen of Fire, the Queen of Earth and the Queen of Air. Now lay out the cards face down and face down in one row.

From left to right, start opening the cards. Only queens will have values. So:

the first queen you discover is who you want to be;

the second queen you discover is who you are;

the third queen you discover is what you develop;

the fourth queen you will open is the one you do not accept.

Now you see how the forces of the four states are distributed in you. Working on the book further, you will be able to balance them in order to create wholeness from harmony and show your feminine strength and essence to the end.

The alignment will help you understand why relationships develop in a certain way and what you need to pay attention to. It is in those states that we do not accept that we experience the greatest difficulties in relationships.

At all times, men sought to find the one in whom all states are manifested. They intuitively felt that only such a woman could be their worthy companion, help them gain strength and integrity. Only when a woman connects with a man on all four levels (physical, sexual, emotional and mental), only then the man is filled with energy and ready to perform feats. Only such a woman helps him conquer the world, which he is ready to throw at her feet. Only such a woman can help a man reach those heights that are destined for him by fate.

If a woman is familiar with these states, then she closes the circle of her feminine power and, as a sign of this, receives an engagement ring as a gift.

In his wife, a man wants to see a passionate Mistress, and an inspiring muse or an impregnable Queen, and an enthusiastic Girl, and a zealous Mistress. A man waits, even sometimes unconsciously, for the satisfaction of all his needs - both mental, and emotional, and physical, and sexual. On a physical level, he expects a woman to take care of him, feed him delicious breakfasts or dinners, keep the house in order, support and calm him in difficult moments. We call this state of a woman the Mistress. And at the same time, on an emotional level, he wants to see in his beloved woman a helpless Girl who needs his protection and patronage, a Girl who admires him and enthusiastically listens to his every word. A girl who recklessly believes in his ability to change the world and rejoices in his successes, appreciates his efforts and gifts, even the simplest ones. At the mental level, a man expects from a woman intelligence and education, the ability to conduct an intellectual conversation, to be aware of his affairs and problems, to be able to guide and inspire him, to be able to be interesting and independent, creative and unpredictable. He wants to see in her the Queen, or the muse. But everything pales before what a man is waiting for at night. No wonder they say - "the night cuckoo will cuckle the day." Passionate and skillful Mistress, who knows all the secrets of bed art, secret points on the body of a man, who is not afraid of oral sex, gets unlimited power. A man cannot get enough of such a woman, and he is drawn to her again and again, he longs for her and seeks to spend every night only with her.

But first, each of us is waiting for a period of courtship. How to do everything right at this time?

It is during the courtship period that a woman lives through all four states that we talked about - Girls, Mistresses, Queens and Mistresses. A man seems to be checking how familiar these states are to a woman, whether she can satisfy all his needs. Can he find what he's looking for in one woman?

Why can't a woman be in one state? Why might this backfire on her?

Sometimes it happens that you give not only sexual energy, but also feed a man, take care of him, make decisions for him, without demanding anything in return. But such altruism turns against you. Because the only man to whom you can devote yourself and give everything is your son. If you behave the same way with a man, then he will also feel your mother in you, and this is very dangerous for your relationship. He will respect you, but he will stop wanting you, because there is a ban on incest with “mom”, and therefore he will subconsciously avoid sex with you. Maybe you met such women: you bought a house for him, and fed him, and put him to bed with you. And it is not surprising that he will immediately be carried away by the one he can take care of himself. Men love to take care of little girls, buy them gifts, carry them in their arms, pamper and protect them. That is why the condition of the Girl is so important. However, constant infantilism eventually irritates. We must not forget about the state of the Queen when you are independent and free. When a man feels that you are one step away from leaving. We inspire a man, but at the same time we are interesting in ourselves. Men shower the Queen with gifts, flowers, trying to earn her attention.

So, in the state of the Mistress you give energy, in the state of the Girl you receive, in the state of the Mistress you give, in the state of the Queen you receive.

Usually two conditions are manifested in a woman. Let's say Mistress and Girl. Or Mistress and Queen. Depending on this, a woman attracts a man into her life who could complement her, strengthen those states in which she is not manifested. And vice versa, a man is looking for that woman in whom there is something that he himself lacks. For example, a man in whom practicality and logic are shown will look for a woman in whom emotionality and sexuality are bright - Girl and Lover. And a creative man, in whom sexuality and emotionality are strong, on the contrary, will look for a woman who is dominated by practicality - Earth and logic - Air.

Men, too, experience the power of the elements. The dominance and combination of certain elements turns some into generals, others into artists and lyricists, others into scientists poring over scientific works and trying to comprehend the secrets of the universe, and the fourth into merchants and teachers. These are the four main male clans.

And representatives of each clan have their own dominant needs: intellectual, energetic, emotional, sensory. Depending on them, a man needs and looks for a woman, depending on them, a woman chooses a man.

Ruler clan

Air and Earth are men in whom logic and practicality are clearly manifested. These are born leaders, they know how to manage and carry along. They have a strong will, they are purposeful and persistent. They always achieve the goals that they set for themselves, sweeping away all obstacles in the way. In their understanding, the world is ruled by force, and they know how to manifest it. They rarely fail and do not forgive insults and humiliations, waiting for an opportunity to take revenge. From those around them, they demand order and discipline. They are restrained in the manifestation of their emotions, secretive and jealous. They tend to control every step of a woman and are ready to hide her from everyone.

They are cool about their own appearance, paying more attention to the status of those things that belong to them.

merchant clan

Earth and Water - practicality and emotionality prevail in such men. Emotionality is manifested in the fact that they are perfectly able to capture the mood of others and, just playing along, achieve their goals. They know how to bargain perfectly, always defending their interests. At the same time, they are not prone to sentimentality and romanticism. Their main qualities are freedom of action and thinking, the desire to follow their own impulses. They are unpredictable, risk-averse, optimistic, decisive and not disposed to abstract reasoning. They have a desire for power and glory. They are always confident in themselves and their rightness. They always and in everything try to show their superiority to others, but for all that they are sociable and know how to create a holiday for themselves and others. They have excellent taste and know how to enjoy the beauty of the world around them. They are very sensitive to their own appearance, they dress beautifully. They can show either generosity, showering them with gifts, or stinginess, even in small things. They know how to beautifully look after, delivering both sensual and aesthetic pleasure. Great lovers of women.

They love variety in everything and are constantly in search of new sensations.

creator clan

Water and Fire are those men in whom emotionality and sexuality are more pronounced. High sexuality is manifested in high creative potential. These are men with a rich imagination, able to be fascinated by new opportunities and rush after the “blue bird”. They know how to create something new - they are artists, poets, architects, actors, musicians. They know how to express and evoke the emotions they need. They are dreamy, romantic and capable of beautiful gestures. They are absolutely indifferent to everyday trifles, it does not matter to them where to sleep, what to eat, what and how they are dressed. They need someone to take care of. They are generous and mean at the same time. Creative chaos always reigns in their lives, but it is only in the midst of this chaos that beautiful works of art are born. They sing of the woman, but it is difficult for them to provide for her. They are ready to devote their whole lives to her, but they are unlikely to be able to build a house for her. They live in an imaginary world cut off from reality, and this allows them to create new worlds. But for these worlds to turn into reality, they need someone who will open them and be able to make all their fantasies come true. They are very sexy and inventive.

clan of discoverers

Fire and Air - these men show logic and intuition, as well as sexuality. This is a clan of male discoverers, scientists, researchers. They are always ready to plunge into the unknown to discover the laws that govern the world. They know how to create structures. They easily destroy the old to create something new. They care little about the shape of their house, order or disorder there. They do not pay attention to their health, they can, carried away by work, forget about food. They are indifferent to money and are able to earn easily and spend just as easily. They are not well versed in emotions and therefore prefer not to show their feelings and not let anyone particularly close to their inner world. They seem cold and reserved, but by nature they are very passionate men. They are excellent at arguing their point of view and often, in search of truth, they do not notice how the feelings of other people hurt.

Knowing which clan a man belongs to by birthright allows you to better understand him and accept him for who he is, with all the advantages and limitations. And not to demand from the artist golden palaces, and from the ruler - the expression of strong emotions.

Men are more determined in their manifestations and more lazy. More precisely, more rational. They will not waste time developing what they have poorly manifested. Unlike women, who are more plastic and can develop those energies that, due to upbringing or birth, were poorly manifested in them.

Therefore, a woman, when she knows the four basic states - Mistresses, Queens, Girls and Mistresses - can tune in to any man, understanding what manifestations he expects from her.

On the pages of this book, you will learn how to discover and develop all these states in yourself. Simple exercises and meditations will help you feel them well, get used to them. You will fulfill them without difficulty - after all, you were born a woman, which means that all these states are your inner world. This is a very interesting adventure - knowing yourself.

Are you ready to go on a trip?

Larisa Renard

Four facets of perfection. Annual Femininity Return Program

© Renard L., text, 2017

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Introduction

The four states of a woman

Have you noticed that every season you feel in a different way?

In winter, you feel how the cold forces you to be rational and prudent. Indeed, in bad weather, you don’t want to leave the house once again, and you think through every step you take. The view of the snowy plain awakens thoughts of freedom. The icy wind makes you shackle yourself in the armor of coldness.

And yet, at home, in a friendly circle, you melt from the warmth and sensitively capture the moods of those around you. Feelings awaken in you.

They will flood like a river when March comes. Your mood will quickly change, it will be impossible to keep up with it. All the plans built in the winter will collapse - in the spring their logic is no longer in demand. Sometimes you start behaving like in childhood - you are capricious, picky, you are hard to please. Yes, you yourself do not know what you want in the spring. Or do you know? For someone to take your whims seriously, to take care of that little girl who woke up in you with the March sun?

The summer sun will awaken strong passions in you. They are difficult to control, impossible to manage. It is worth the fire to flare up, and its flame already lives its own life - obeys its own laws. You become bold and even daring and dive headlong into the pool of passion. And if in the summer you completely surrender to your inner fire, then by the fall you emerge from this pool as a luxurious beauty.

Your September state is like the rich colors of an autumn landscape. There are many shades of complex feelings in your soul that you catch in yourself and those around you. And people are drawn to you to hear a kind word or wise advice. You radiate the fullness of life, calmness and self-confidence.

Each season is associated with one of the four major women's fortunes. In winter, this is the state of the Queen - self-sufficient, independent, rational. In spring - the state of the Girl, trusting, loving, open. In summer - the state of the Mistress, passionate, bright and exciting the male imagination. And in autumn - the state of the Mistress, confident, calm and wise.

Each of these states is not just a set of qualities, but a manifestation of four forms of female energy.

Maybe you haven't heard about it. But this does not mean that these states are unfamiliar to you. The one born of a woman is already born with intuitive knowledge of all four states. Just the degree of manifestation of these conditions for different women is different. In someone, the Lover is more manifested, in someone the Queen is more, in someone the Mistress is more, and in someone - the Girl.

The states of female energy are associated with the natural elements - Earth, Air, Water and Fire.

Each element gives you a certain energy at the time of your birth. The element of Earth, strong and essential, endows a woman with calmness, practicality, solidity and reliability (the state of the Mistress), the element of Fire, hot and pulsating, makes a woman sensual and impulsive, passionate and sexual (the state of the Mistress). The element of Water gives us emotionality and spontaneity, playfulness and softness (the condition of a Girl). Air helps us to become self-reliant and purposeful, independent and logical (the state of the Queen).

All these states are depicted in the legends and tales of different peoples. Of course, you learned about the Queen's condition in childhood from the fairy tale "The Snow Queen" by Hans Christian Andersen. Not surprisingly, the Danish writer turned to this topic. After all, Denmark is a country with ancient royal traditions. Therefore, here the story of the Snow Queen could happen, dazzling, powerful and so attractive that she even managed to win Kai's kind children's heart, enchanting him with her magnificence. Andersen guessed and embodied in this image those qualities of the Queen that still excite the imagination of many men. The white snowy kingdom, the vast expanse - all these are the possessions of the Queen, a proud and shining woman, the conqueror of men's hearts.

In Russian fairy tales, we can also meet the image of the queen - this is the Swan Princess, sung by Pushkin, Vrubel and other geniuses. The swan was once the king of all birds. Since then, legends about swan maidens have appeared in the mythology of the northern peoples as a symbol of royal power, unfading beauty and communion with sacred knowledge.

In Scandinavian mythology, swan maidens turned into Valkyries, warrior maidens on winged horses. But, like swan maidens, they fly to a river or lake and, throwing off their clothes, turn into fabulous beauties. It is believed that only the one who hides their clothes can gain power over them.

The Queen symbolizes the element of Air. And most of the practices associated with the element of Air originated from the northern tradition, from the Arctic ancestral home of our civilization - Hyperborea, the disappeared mainland in the Far North. The Hellenes came up with this word, calling the country behind the north wind Boreas, stretching for many hundreds of kilometers. As legends tell, the climate there was mild and warm, and this region prospered, striking with its wealth. It was there that the main pyramid of the Earth towered - Mount Meru, the ancient mythical sacred center of the world. But the fall of the asteroid changed the axis of rotation of the Earth, and the ancient northern continent went under water. Only a part of the great continent remained, Greenland, bound by ice, which keeps its secrets.

You may have read the book or watched the movie Smilla's Snow Feeling. About a girl who had an amazing intuitive understanding of snow, about a girl who loved endless expanses and mathematics, the abstract science of numbers and formulas. This is the story of a stubborn and courageous heroine who firmly decided to unravel the mystery of the death of her little friend, a native of Greenland.

Smilla is another northern heroine-Queen, embodying all the qualities of this state - independence, logic, authority and independence. Such a woman is brave and cold-blooded, confident and free. She sees everything, understands everything and controls everything. She guides and inspires a man, always remaining herself.

A girl is a different state of a woman. Gentle and kind, loving and meek. A girl is like water, washing away all sorrows, taking away sorrows and giving boundless love, peace and tranquility. In Greek art, this state was embodied in the goddess Aphrodite, who married the Olympian gods and ordinary people.

Afros is Greek for sea foam. Aphrodite was born from the blood of Uranus castrated by Cronus, which fell into the sea and formed foam. Once, as the legend says, Aphrodite emerged from the foam on the coast of the Greek island of Cyprus.

Until now, in Cyprus, this place is popular with tourists who specially come here to plunge into the waters that washed the body of the beautiful goddess, and transform externally and internally. Because of the stones, as if specially scattered near the shore, the sea is always restless here - the waves merrily run on the warm sand, swirl in whirlpools, rage and seem to compose a song in honor of the revered Aphrodite.

This place is also known by the initiates - people who have knowledge and perform energy practices. The place got its name - Petratu Romiou - not by chance. It is associated with one of the exploits of the Byzantine hero Digenis Akritas. It is thanks to him that this little bay is so restless. After all, it was Digenis, according to legend, who threw giant blocks into the water, because of which the water is now foaming near the shore. The hero defended the country from the Saracen invaders who tried to take over the city. One of these boulders was named Petratu Romiou, which translates as "Greek's Stone".

Lovers come here especially. It is believed that bathing in these waters guarantees them a long life together. And if at midnight you muster up the courage and swim past the biggest stone, then you will always be young and beautiful, like a Greek goddess.

Aphrodite had the power of powerful love penetrating the whole world. She is the goddess of eternal spring and life. She is also associated with fertility, so she was always depicted surrounded by flowers - roses, anemones, daffodils, lilies, violets.

This goddess was worshiped in antiquity and is still worshiped. Lovers believe in her power and patronage. And they bring gifts to Aphrodite - chic works of art and cute trinkets, dedicate dances and poems.

For example, these:

I invoke Urania, the Virgin with an immortal smile.
O Aphrodite, sung in hymns, Bringing good!
Sea-born Mother Goddess, Mistress of the Night,
You cover passionate lovers with a misty veil.
You skillfully weave the secret threads of deceit
Into the golden net, O Mother of Ananki, pleasing to the eye.
For You are the source of everything that the bottomless Cosmos reveals to us.
The Trinity Moir obeyed You, O Lady of the world,
The heights of the mountains, the hills and valleys of the fertile land,
The deep seas and the creatures of the sea that dwell in it.

Apec, the god of war and battle, was the husband of Aphrodite. Love keeps the warrior in battle, and the stronger the woman's love, the more protected the man. Therefore, warriors also honor the goddess of love and ask her for protection.